the sex of my baby has been a secret for my husband and unfortunately someone on this blog told…

What in the world that is terrible. Who would even do that! Sorry for that happening

that is so messed up of whoever that was, did you know the person? I am so sorry she and her husband ruined yalls moment😢

its really mean! I don't really know these people much. her bf works with my husband and I have been nice to her and I didnt think she was the type to say anything. I posted it on here a couple a days ago that I was told I was having a girl. my husband blows up on me the next asking why other people know the sex and he dont. it really breaks my heart that this guy messaged him telling him he knew the sex and it wasn't his place to say anything. like wtf!? if it ain't your place then why you messaging my husband. hmm.

that's so fucked up. how does that even happen. that's like that undercover shit. shm sorry mama I know how special that moment is.

thank you ladies for reading my post and taking the time to comment. I appreciate your kind words. I really needed them.

What the heck!!! :( that's horrible! I don't even know why someone would feel the need to tell your hubby that, it's not their news to tell! I'm sorry that happened :(@anayeli

thank you. @dreamie702 @hermommy

@anayeli that's very messed up and upsetting, I totally understand you wanting to do something sweet and memorable for him with the sex of the baby.

and it's no problem, I hope your hubby is excited about yalls baby girl just stinks someone had to ruin his surprise

@hermommy, he's happy about the baby but I did have plans in place to him to find out. he was more upset that this guy who he could care less about knew and he didnt. so he was mad at me over the weekend. I was so upset because he rejected me and made me feel like crap. then he apologized and told me he was just really upset.

@anayeli yeah girl I understand that, I can't imagine how he felt. The only people wrong though was the lady and her husband because that wasn't their place.

I hope your not talking about me and my Husband. Not trying to be rude I just seen your Facebook post about it and then on here...my Husband was trying to message you but your bf seen it because you share a fb. All he wanted to do was ask if it was a girl and congratulate you on the baby. I didn't know that you wanted to keep it a secret...I did tell him not to say anything to him and that's why he sent the message to you not your husband....it was a simple mistake since you both share a Facebook and we can never tell who is who when someone is on or commenting. I understand your upset but talking bad about us when your upset instead of saying something to either of us is a bit childish. Both my Husband and I would have apologized immediately if either of us knew....but instead we had to find out by you making a rather valgour post about a simple mistake. I do apologize for the mistake and that is made you both upset.

I never posted the sex of my baby on fb. I posted it on this blog. this blog is a private blog for pregnant women to share their stories and rely on each other. I never thought of you yet alone your husband sending a fb message to my husband. his message was directed to him so let's get that clear. if it was an honest mistake or cruelty it wasn't your business period. you are fb friends with us like your husband is and both of you knew that I didn't tell my husband the sex because I posted the secrecy on fb that you read. I'm not upset in the least. I'm just upset that its no longer a special moment opportunity for my husband. and my post are not vulgar because that's not who I am. if you knew he had messaged my husband you as a woman should have given me a heads up and apologized for overstepping.

I understand that this is a place for pregnant women and all of that...just because it is does not mean I'm going to go against my husband and keep things from him I tell my husband everything. He did not direct the message to your husband he sent a message and he told him it was him so my husband said it wasn't his place to tell...he did not know he would get so upset over that. No it wasn't my business that's why I was not the one that said anything that was my husband who is his own person. Vulgar may not have been the right word but you were bashing me and my husband for something that was a simple mistake as I put it before. Neither my husband or I are the type of people to ever intentionally ruin something for someone..it was a mistake and he didn't tell him the sex at all he showed me the message. As for me knowing I didn't until I just asked him when I seen your post, I am not the one who overstepped all I did was share something with my husband and even told him not to tell yours...I did apologize for the mix up and that your husband lost that special moment but as I had said before my husband never ment to talk to him....let's get that clear that he did not direct the message to your husband it was directed to you. My husband never once said the sex of the baby and I didn't even know till I just sent you that first message or I would have said something. I would have apologized but I didn't even know till I read a fb post bashing me and my husband for a mistake that was not intentional or ment to hurt or ruin anything for anyone.

okay. well, it is what it is now. for the future if i post something I would like you to respect my privacy like I respect yours.

Don't worry it won't be happening again. No offence but I don't stay friends with people who bash my husband or I for any reason. Have a nice day and healthy baby.

we weren't friends.. but okay. thanks. you too.