I haven't been trying to conceive all that long but I'm ready to give up. My mom is fertile, my sister is fertile so why am I the one who suffers? They both didn't want their kids. They still don't want their kids. So, why can't I conceive? I've tried tea, fertility lube, softcups, elevated hips and home inseminations. I don't do pills. I use OPKs. I take vitamins. I eat healthy. I am healthy. I'm ready to throw all the baby inspiration things out the window and get on birth control. I'm fed up with this... It isn't fair!
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Sometimes it can take years for a healthy couple to conceive! Good luck! Maybe your man is the infertile one.....??
Don't give up...we tried for eleven years and last June miscarried. Only to find out in September that I was pregnant again and I am 32. With God on my side I will give birth to a beautiful little boy July 4 and my birthday is July 12. Yes, miracles do happen every day so stay strong and keep trying I can honestly say it happens when you least expect it.
I tried for three years, and after the first year, I didn't care or even want one. so I understand now, how you feel. it's hard, but, I've also had a miscarriage at 7 weeks the first time, so don't give up hope hun!
when you and your hubby start to be intimate, think of anything else in the world, but trying to have a baby. don't focus on it. don't even act like you're trying, have some serious get down and dirty time, & tadaa, you should be pregnant in no time. that's how I did it. even though I really wasn't trying to have a baby at all, lol a good position for fertility is making flat on your stomach and he goes from behind, and when you get finished, prop your hips up for 15 minutes. he might look at you weird, but I swear, it works. lol. I wish you all the luck in the world!! don't give up hope! :)
Sorry to hear your struggling Hun! But from experience that I know of it helps to just stop trying. I wouldn't get on BC but if I was you I would just live life and enjoy myself until it's time. I know it's easier said than done but my best friend ( married for 10 years now ) just gave birth to her first about 6 months ago. She tried n tried n cried and tried and I finally talked her into just letting go and having fun. After a amazing 9 months she realized she was almost 4 months pregnant and didn't even know it. And honestly she said she was having so much fun living carefree she had mixed emotions s about the pregnancy at first! Lol! I hope things work out for you tho and wish you the best!
^^I agree. When you're just having fun it happens. Thats how I got my son. We stopped trying so hard and that next month I found out I was pregnant. And with this one I debated on it. And 6 months after I had a miscarriage I was pregnant. So dont put so much time and effort in to it.
Hey Hun don't give up I didn't think I could get pregnant let alone carry it for a long period of time but at 27 I was blessed and cursed with a beautiful baby boy (he passed away at 32 weeks gestation) but the point is when the time is right you will conceive just be patient
Hey Hun don't give up I didn't think I could get pregnant let alone carry it for a long period of time but at 27 I was blessed and cursed with a beautiful baby boy (he passed away at 32 weeks gestation) but the point is when the time is right you will conceive just be patient
Nah, he got tested. I have this thing that if I'm 26 and older I don't want to bring a child into this world. I'm stubborn... I won't keep trying. Thanks ladies for trying to give me positive vibes.