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Samantha Gordon
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What is everyone's opinion about not having inlaws in the delivery room. My entire pregnancy they have done nothing but…

What is everyone's opinion about not having inlaws in the delivery room. My entire pregnancy they have done nothing but cause me stress first by telling me that they are taking my baby from me and then most recently by not being very helpful and canceling the baby shower a week before I'm due because they are mad because I stopped letting them walk all over me and doing everything to make them happy. Also they have caused me to develop a dangerous heart condition due to the stress that could hurt my baby and me. I don't know what to do because I still feel as thou they should be there but I want my delivery as stress free as possible. What would everyone do in this situation?

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logan_thomas_345

Samantha Gordon

Thanks guys think I made up my mind about things now everyone was a huge help in it

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rhebee

ReReМама сына (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)

They can sit in the waiting room ! This is about you and the baby

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jm10

jm10Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

you can choose who you want there with you, my family and husbands family would go in and out the room while I was in labor but once I was about to give birth my husband and sister stayed with me

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tiffrae

TiffanyМама сына (5 лет), беременна (26 нед.)

I had my mom, MIL, SO, and my sister. no one else. you can choose who you want in your room. Have them in the waiting room, that's what my sister did with her in laws.

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mantha823

SamanthaМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I only had my hubby in the room....my other children met their sibling before anyone else.....in my opinion it's not the in laws right to be in there.

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logan_thomas_345

Samantha Gordon

They are going to try and my boyfriend had a bad history with things and was put in kid jail when he was younger we are both scared that they will use what he did as a child to get our son taken

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mommylife2three

emileyМама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)

had my hubby, mom and mother in law for first two. this one is just going to be me n hubby

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brittanycheri

BrittanyВ ожидании первенца

Not let anyone one in the room but your hubby. You can ask the doc or whoever is going the delivery to tell them to go on the hospital rules.. I want it to be just my husband and me.. I wanted my mom but she won't be able to make it out. She just got over the flu. My sister thinks she will be in the room but I want it to be just us now.

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logan_thomas_345

Samantha Gordon

Used that when I told them earlier and they put me down and said I'm not good enough and that they will be taking my son from me

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ecahanes

EmilyМама сына-младенца

My inlaws are amazing but I still didn't allow them to be in the delivery room and I'm so happy I did. I don't think they need to be seeing all that it's my husband's and I baby not theirs

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showersoverflowers

C.Мама сына (2 года), беременна (23 нед.)

even with everything you just mentioned, I do not feel as though that is a moment for anyone but your husband and you. they can wait in the waiting room with everyone else. this is not their child

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