Why was I stupid enough to think this pregnancy would bring out a more sensitive and caring side of my boyfriend?

I thought he'd want to feel her kick as much as possible and talk to her. I thought he would be willing to take on some of the housework and let me put my feet up. I thought maybe he'd rub my feet every once in a while or maybe give me a back rub. I thought he'd try to make sure I was happy all the time.

I feel like I'm starting to fall out of love with him because I'm realizing how much he doesn't do for me that I want in a boyfriend and husband some day.

We've been fighting for almost 2 days straight, I told him all I wanted was a sincere apology for hurting my feelings and he won't even give me that. Part of me wants to leave so bad and part of me knows that I will be screwed financially if I do. I feel so lost.