Tummy touching is so violating! The only person I've let touch my stomach is my husband, but yesterday a friend came over whom I haven't seen in quite awhile. She kept reaching over and touching me, talking to my baby. Top it off with her telling me I'm not going to be able to handle my two cats and dog, that I needed to get rid of them, and just generally talking down about my life. Ulgh. This is why I don't talk to people. 😳😳😳
@gingyrex, it's OK I see him when I want, it's funny cause he don't care about me at all lol!! he runs pass me
@pandabby805, Sorry about your cat. :c I could NOT get used to people touching me, its just creepy. :\
I had to put my foot down and tell my mom she needed to stop telling me what to do with my pets. They were my first little babies. They taught me so much responsibility and I will not be getting rid of them period. She finally stopped mentioning it after she realized how serious I was about it. I have three dogs and it would literally kill me to give them up.
@maybabyboy, it just kept catching me off guard because literally no one but my husband and doctors have touched me the entire pregnancy. And I had initially planned to get rid of one of the cats; but only because she needs extra attention I was worried I couldn't give her. But over the past few weeks we've worked it out. Honestly its no body's business though. Its annoying that the people without kids are the most vocal about how TERRIBLE your life is supposed to be after you have them. -.-
I have had a lot of coworkers touch my belly, which doesn't bother me enough to get upset about it, I see these people 40 hours a week. I dare someone I don't know so well to try to touch my belly though. Also, I REALLY feel you on the whole pet thing! we have 2 cats and people keep asking me when we are going to get rid of them... I very strongly tell them NEVER, my cats and my baby are going to be best friends!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
@twinscomingsoon, pets are family. When anyone with kids say things like that I just want to say "When you get pregnant again are you going to get rid of one of your first kids?"