So my little sister has now decided, a week before my due date that she doesn't want to be a part of…
So my little sister has now decided, a week before my due date that she doesn't want to be a part of my little boys life, or mine or even my mums. This just totally came out of the blue and I'm completely shocked. Isn't half true that you find out who's really there for you when you have a baby, and in reality? I have my mum, my dad, my cousin and my 2 dogs. I've lost my sister, babies dad and all my friends. Yet, I'm still happy! That really says a lot. Good bye negative people 😃🤗👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽
Jeyda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
well done hun 👏 you can do it! xx
Becca Stirling·
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@duchess92, only thing getting me through is knowing it's their loss and not mines! Not exactly great as every single one of them meant the world to me, but I'd do anything for my little boy and if that means all these people disappearing from my life, then so be it! Xx
Jeyda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
@beccastirlingx, if they were worth it hun they would have stuck around! people who really care do! it's a shame when it's family as they are the ones who really should be supportive but sadly family can be the worst at times! xx
Becca Stirling·
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@duchess92, exactly! Couldn't have said it any better! Thank you 💜xx
Lucy·
Мама дочки-младенца
Had the same thing lost one of my oldest friends In Hindsight she's quite demanding to its a lot easier without her causing dramas
Shan·
It's their loss! as long as you have who you need you will be fine xx
Becca Stirling·
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@ljay, @shanttc atleast I'm not alone. Thank you ladies! Would rather do this on my own than have people's negativity around my son xx
Jeyda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
@beccastirlingx, you're welcome hun 💟 x
Vicky·
my older sister doesn't want to be a part of my or babies life either. she started hating me the day I told her I was pregnant. It upset me at first... but now I'm over it @beccastirlingx xx
Lucy·
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You'll be amazing. And you'll be really surprised who steps up and who is there for you, some people have really surprised me ! Not long now so exciting X
Becca Stirling·
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@vicky1995, it's so frustrating! She was off st first telling me to get an abortion etc. Then she was fine and it all started recently again and then she hit me with that. So done trying to please her. It's pathetic really! Xx
Becca Stirling·
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@ljay, ahh thank you Hun! It's very exciting, the wait is a killer though! Knowing I could go any day now, the suspense is killing! X
Vicky·
yea I'm done trying to please my sister too. not worth the stress and hassle... chin up 😆 😚 xx
Mio·
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All you need is people who truly care about you @beccastirlingx , I've learned to ignore negative people and that has helped me. You have people who love you and your baby. That's what matters. Some people just can't handle other people's happiness and they'll never get it. xx
Becca Stirling·
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@mioaurellia, @vicky1995 thank you ladies! Xxx
steph·
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@beccastirlingx, I know she's your sister hun but people like that arnt worth your time all you need is the positive people and your beautiful little boy 😄 xx
Becca Stirling·
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@steph775, exactly Hun! Tried to please her but wasn't working so she can get lost! Thank you 💜 xx
steph·
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@beccastirlingx, That's the spirit 😊 I'm sure all us ladies will be on here for a long long time it's a fab support network if you ever need to talk I'm hear to listen ☺ xx
Becca Stirling·
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@steph775, thank you Hun! You too! Xxx