Should I Convince My Husband to Have a Baby Shower for Our Last Baby?
No one is throwing me a shower which I don't care. I do want one for my baby but my husband doesn't want to. This will be our last baby. Even though I want 2 more he said no more so I'm closing the factory once I give birth..... Should I convince my husband to have a party for our baby? It's my last one and every Baby is a blessing!!!! I always wanted to be mother and Hod blessed me with 2. I want to celebrate their life and coming to this world.... My husband said it's stupid to have your own party because if we can't afford to have a baby,..... why have one.... I said presents isn't the point of a baby shower.... in my opinion. It is to celebrate the baby that is coming!!!!
Maddy·
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Yes you should have one. It's the last one enjoy it!
Baby Figueroa·
@hamman13, what do I tell my husband? he is against it
Maddy·
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Just tell him since its your last that you want to have the full experience. That you will never have again. N tell him how you feel. ! N hey if still says no say okay than I can do it with the next one 😉😂?
kim·
I'm a soon-to-be FTM, so I don't know the etiquette rules on baby showers, but I was told they were only supposed to be for your first baby? And every baby after that can have a "meet and greet" type of thing after the baby is born, but not another shower? Maybe your husband heard the same idea someone told me! haha. Good luck anyway :)
Baby Figueroa·
@hamman13, that's funny !!!!
Baby Figueroa·
@kimlove, that's not fair for the other babies! lol....
kim·
I know! I guess people assume next baby will just get hand me downs. I know you said you don't want a baby shower for the gifts, but that's what most people think of for baby showers.... Maybe you can throw a celebration party and tell people no gifts, please. I'm sure your husband will agree to it then!
sarah·
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I'm pregnant with my first and nobody threw me a baby shower either 😕
Maddy·
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Hey than maybe he will agree since he doesn't want another.
Baby Figueroa·
@kimlove, maybe I will throw one after the baby is born to celebrate the baby
Baby Figueroa·
@expectingisabelle, did u already have your baby?
Baby Figueroa·
@hamman13, he said we can throw a party after
sarah·
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no im due may 11
Zhanna·
A lot of European country celebrate when baby born . They believe you protecting the baby this way 😊 . Maybe it's not a bad idea will be celebrate your baby no matter watt before or after .
Sharese·
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@babytj0214, my husband doesn't want a shower either because he thinks no one will come. So I decided to throw him a surprise shower. I am in the same situation as you as far as his children. He has one 13 year old who is extremely ungrateful and he lives with us. I want him to go live with his mother so bad!!
Christina Orlando·
Have a "sip and see" after baby is here. Everyone can meet the little one and will most likely bring a small gift anyway. I know I can't resist baby shopping!!!
Baby Figueroa·
@co1017, what is sip and see
Baby Figueroa·
@co1017, never heard of it
Christina Orlando·
It's usually like a brunch/tea party where you can invite your friends and family to come meet the baby after they are born. Not as big event as a shower but in my experience most people will bring a small gift for baby or meal for the new mother to have and it's really nice. I plan to do them for my 2nd and 3rd child.
Baby Figueroa·
@co1017, thank u..... I will look into it
Christina Orlando·
:) :) :)
Baby Figueroa·
@expectingisabelle, how do u know no one is throwing u one....
sarah·
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I don't have family to do it and my fiances family isn't to happy were having a baby