No one is throwing me a shower which I don't care. I do want one for my baby but my husband doesn't want to. This will be our last baby. Even though I want 2 more he said no more so I'm closing the factory once I give birth..... Should I convince my husband to have a party for our baby? It's my last one and every Baby is a blessing!!!! I always wanted to be mother and Hod blessed me with 2. I want to celebrate their life and coming to this world.... My husband said it's stupid to have your own party because if we can't afford to have a baby,..... why have one.... I said presents isn't the point of a baby shower.... in my opinion. It is to celebrate the baby that is coming!!!!
It's usually like a brunch/tea party where you can invite your friends and family to come meet the baby after they are born. Not as big event as a shower but in my experience most people will bring a small gift for baby or meal for the new mother to have and it's really nice. I plan to do them for my 2nd and 3rd child.
Have a "sip and see" after baby is here. Everyone can meet the little one and will most likely bring a small gift anyway. I know I can't resist baby shopping!!!
@babytj0214, my husband doesn't want a shower either because he thinks no one will come. So I decided to throw him a surprise shower. I am in the same situation as you as far as his children. He has one 13 year old who is extremely ungrateful and he lives with us. I want him to go live with his mother so bad!!
A lot of European country celebrate when baby born . They believe you protecting the baby this way 😊 . Maybe it's not a bad idea will be celebrate your baby no matter watt before or after .
@kimlove, maybe I will throw one after the baby is born to celebrate the baby
Hey than maybe he will agree since he doesn't want another.
I'm pregnant with my first and nobody threw me a baby shower either 😕
I know! I guess people assume next baby will just get hand me downs. I know you said you don't want a baby shower for the gifts, but that's what most people think of for baby showers.... Maybe you can throw a celebration party and tell people no gifts, please. I'm sure your husband will agree to it then!
I'm a soon-to-be FTM, so I don't know the etiquette rules on baby showers, but I was told they were only supposed to be for your first baby? And every baby after that can have a "meet and greet" type of thing after the baby is born, but not another shower? Maybe your husband heard the same idea someone told me! haha. Good luck anyway :)
Just tell him since its your last that you want to have the full experience. That you will never have again. N tell him how you feel. ! N hey if still says no say okay than I can do it with the next one 😉😂?
My husband doesn't want a baby shower.....
he said if we can't afford to buy our own stuff and have people come and buy them for us then why have a baby if we can't afford it. I know we can, we'll I can but it's my last one and I want one. I love my babies.... Every baby is a blessing :) should I try to convince my husband or let it go ????
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
Baby Shower September
Is anyone else having their baby shower in September? I see a lot of October and November but no one really has said September? I am having mine then so I have plenty of time to get the rest of the things that I need. Also my sister is flying in from Washington D.C. to Indiana for my moms surprise 60th birthday party so we are doing everything in one weekend. Anyone else?
I really thought I was getting a baby shower and like no one has even thought about giving me one. This is my first baby i mean no one has to do anything for me I just at least thought they had plans for me and they don’t. They gave my uncle one because his wife didn’t want one because she already had a kid.And everyone got a baby shower and was giving one .But I guess it’s okay. I’ll do my own baby shower with my next child I just thought family planned a baby shower for you . Lol guess I thoug...

Baby Shower Dress?! Shopping has been difficult and I can't decide which dress for my shower? Keeping gender a surprise!
I don't have family to do it and my fiances family isn't to happy were having a baby