I pray my mother in law isnt here when the baby comes. Ive been lazy as possible.. She leaves april…

you can tell the nurses you don't want her there and they will ask her to leave.

Best way flat out tell her my SO's mom was like that and I laughed in her face and said I'm the one in labor otherwise nurses will be glad to lie for you.

But my husband will get pissed if I do that.

I wont lie, I know Im being straight up selfish, but shes bothered us for long enough, and always has to know everything. Legit she made sure it was okay for her to come onto the fort campbell base hospital as long as she has ID.

I cant lie because she will know and cry to her son.

I told the nurses at the hospital who I wanted in and who I did not. They kept them out! I just wanted my SO and mother with me.

I'll explain that to him.

He will throw a fit and if he wants to be a dick to me Ill snao and kick him out too. My father died while I was 3 weeks pregnant. My mother has suffered his loss, and me leaving her, my brother going to jail from using her money for drugs, and people stealing from her mail lately because of dads life insurance. The least she fucking deserves is to get to see her daughter give birth to her grandchild first.

That's his mom. I can see why he would want her there too. That's his moment just as well

Yes @junesmommy15 but she's the one in labor. If she doesn't feel like her MIL will support her the way she needs, then she shouldn't be forced into it. @gingermama you're the patient, so the nurses will follow whatever you request for who is there.

@mommagotbump16 I wasn't asking for your opinion neither was I telling her to so anything. I don't recall commenting on your post. His day just as well as hers. He didn't say anything about her mom being there.

See Thomas doesnt care if his mom is there. We agreed because his mom is staying here for a month and leaving april 29th, my mother will then come down and stay for a month. That puts my mom with me.

He just doesnt want to open up and tell his mom the truth of what we agreed

shes seen like every ultrasound she was even there for the gender reveal one, my mother wasnt, and Its her turn to be there for the important part.

@junesmommy15, I don't recall saying anything ugly to you, so no idea why you feel the need to be rude. I was agreeing with you that it is his moment too, but saying also that during labor it shouldn't be forced on her if her MIL isn't going to be helpful. Have a good one ma'am.

@mommagotbump16 I think if you wouldn't have had anything to say to me it would have not seemed to me that you were firstly being rude to me. I don't feel like you were agreeing. What I said was not wrong. I'm sorry if I was misunderstood. Have a good one also.

See thats it.. Shes stressed me so much.. II ended up in the ER the other night with the babys heart rate spiking abnormally, I was tachycardic.. This woman does not help. @junesmommy15 @mommagotbump16

@gingermama, then he's gonna need to find a way. Otherwise she's gonna get her feelings hurt for no reason, when he could've sat her down ahead of time and explained it. My hubs had to do the same thing too, and I did it with my mom (I only wanted my husband in there though-just because of how I am in pain lol)

Then let her know. I wasn't saying you should have her in there. I was saying I could see why he would want her there but you said he don't.

@junesmommy15, apologies. I was only expounding on what you said. Next time I won't tag you.

How I want it to go is I only want my husband in the room for the birth but I would like my mother given everything shes lost in the last year to be the first to hold her grandchild, the one thing she will be given from all that shes lost. Im the only child who can give her one. My brother has .. an issue that he cannot bare a child.

Its not that hard to tell her that. She should understand what my mom has gone through..