now I'm getting harped at for putting my own son on my chest when he's fussy? uhm my bad? I didn't…

Dear lord.. I don't see how you haven't snapped on them yet dude... that's YOUR son... smh... it's not like you're making them take care of them. Even if that did spoil him, which it definitely wont, it's not like they are the ones taking care of him! ugh.. I wanna slap them for you.

My daughter slept on my chest every single night for almost a month when she was born cause I wanted her close to me. Never rolled over and she didn't either. She's fine and she went to her own bed just fine. She coslept with me for months.

they didn't have him carry him feel your aches and pain so in my opinion he's your son so u can do whatever u want with him. your doing nothing wrong and don't let anybody tell u that. being a mama is in your blood from the moment u found out u where pregnant instinct kicked in so do it your way

Oh my goodness they need to leave you alone it's YOUR son you know what's best. @xbbycolletto

I'm trying very hard out of respect for Sebastian to not snap on everyone who has an issue with everything that I do. I don't ask anyone to take care of my son. if anything I get pissed when he's taken from me so everyone can hold him and shit. it's like dude just let him eat, Shit, and sleep. he sleeps better when he is on my chest if he's fussy. he spent a week in the NICU and it fucked up my plans of breast feeding him. he'll never be able to bc of the bottles they gave him. so I have to breast pump and feed him the bottle. now it's such a crime that I lay him on my chest when he's fussy. he knows my heartbeat.. if anything that's something that calms Him down. Im so tired of "doing everything wrong". @littlemissrainesmommy

girl..my you are doing everything perfectly fine!!!! coming from someone whose done a shit ton of training when it comes to newborns and babies, I promise you aren't going to ruin him. he needs that skin to skin with you and Sebastian. it helps with his immune system even if he can't directly breastfeed... girl I will find you some science backed articles to send to you so they can stfu.. sorry you're going through all this! hopefully they back the hell off you soob

that's what I'm saying. its like no one seems to understand that just because one baby was one way doesn't mean every baby WILL be that way. my son isn't fussy normally. he sleeps a lot. if anything I deserve to do skin to skin as much as I can because that moment was taken from me because he was so sick when he was born. I didn't get that special bond with him when he was born like most women get. fuck.. I didn't even get to see him for the first time until the next day at 2 in the afternoon and at that I couldn't even hold him... for 4 days I never got to hold my son. now Its such a problem that I do skin to skin by him laying on my chest? it's frustrating how everyone just won't let me parent. @aidenlunas_mommy @briannedenay @tylersbaby30

and all I truly do is put him on my chest til he's out cold then I do this once he's out. they act like I leave him there for the entire time he sleeps. @littlemissrainesmommy @aidenlunas_mommy @briannedenay @tylersbaby30

he's so precious.... they just need to calm down

seriously. I get so annoyed to the point where I just wish I'd scream out to screw off and let me parent I'm doing just fine and he's mine, not theirs. 😐 @littlemissrainesmommy

there will always be somebody who thinks they know best just ignore and keep doing what u know is right but also if u can't take it anymore let them know how u feel