my SO has a 5yr old boy that will be 6 yrs old in May and he is super spoiled SMH. He is such a baby and does nothing on his own. We have to brush his teeth for him put his clothes on for him his shoes included. Put lotion on him and his dad has a problem with telling him no. I have a 6yr old that will be 7yrs old in November. She does everything on her own even runs her own bath water and wash herself up, and she can get dressed and tie her shoes. My problem is my child can sleep on her own and his child has to lay with us until he falls asleep then we put him in his bed. I just don't think it's fair to my child he gets to be babied and she has to be the big girl. How can I tell my SO to stop babying him without him getting offended because I know we will have a problem when the baby comes 😒 and he expects me to baby him as well .... not gonna happen
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SMH my SO has a 3 year old nephew he takes care of that does more for himself than that
thanks ladies I really needed to vent about it
@gorjas1, I understand my husbands youngest isn't in school yet he is four so we raise him and he babies him and only him scares me sometimes having one together but we have a very strong relationship very but it's hard for me to call him out all the time cause that's his baby he is like the mom and dad even tho we have been together since he was one dad is still the one who just gives in but he is not that way with his older two or mine hard
I think that's exactly what's going on. He is already getting into trouble at school and his dad just thinks the teacher doesn't like him
I know it's just frustrating and I try to understand because I know he's use to being the only child so idk 😔 @chichi1975
He needs to think about the long run, what he is making his child think.
Its a hard time to try and parent when they are at that age and one parent cant be hard on them. Daddy is suppose to be the atrong, authoritive figure. A role model. If he thinks he can have whatever he wants with the dad, and not have to listen to yiu when you say no, then he will think he doesnt have to listen to women, and when he has a female teacher? Hes gonna get in trouble. When he has a girlfriend? She will probably leave him for disrespect.
It's hard when you each have children plus one of your own soon together no one who has not experienced yours mine and ours could understand it's hard it's work and sometimes unfair just saying I've been there my husband has three me two and soon ours it's a challenge at times😔@gorjas1
@gingermama, my thoughts exactly, and my thing is he's a BOY I would understand if it was a girl but come on now it's just ridiculous and when he don't get his way he pouts and of course daddy gives in smh I don't wanna be the mean one always telling him no then he would think I don't like him
Tell him you are worried about him getting made fun of and bullied and that he needs to learn to do some of these things on his own.. He could have a bad childhood if hes acting like a baby when the other kids are growing up.
Lmao Yall need to compromise and hes just gonna have to live with it. If he wants his kid to be liked, and not bullied and called a baby in school, then he better crack down real wuick. Whats the kid gonna do when hes in 1st grade when they have to do everything for him while the other kids are being big kids?
SMH sad I know @alexisjadesmommy