my SO has a 5yr old boy that will be 6 yrs old in May and he is super spoiled SMH. He is such a baby and does nothing on his own. We have to brush his teeth for him put his clothes on for him his shoes included. Put lotion on him and his dad has a problem with telling him no. I have a 6yr old that will be 7yrs old in November. She does everything on her own even runs her own bath water and wash herself up, and she can get dressed and tie her shoes. My problem is my child can sleep on her own and his child has to lay with us until he falls asleep then we put him in his bed. I just don't think it's fair to my child he gets to be babied and she has to be the big girl. How can I tell my SO to stop babying him without him getting offended because I know we will have a problem when the baby comes 😒 and he expects me to baby him as well .... not gonna happen