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My partner has gone from wanting more children to now not wanting anymore. This really upsets me. I can't help feeling…

My partner has gone from wanting more children to now not wanting anymore. This really upsets me. I can't help feeling hatred towards him 😢 Help!

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sp28346

sp28346

never saw that you replied to me on here! aww me too would be so great if we could do baby outings :D

zaralee71

zara

Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

I totally agree hun, you have a beautiful boy so just enjoy him for now 😊 xxx

missing370user

missing370user

@zaralee71, @homely.mummy.no2 I knows, time will tell. Just going to enjoy my wonderful baby that I do have. I should be grateful having one, as that's not the case for some xxx

homely.mummy.no2

Kerry

Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (22 нед.)

He might change his mind yet x

zaralee71

zara

Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

I said to Lee that I didn't want anymore when William was a few weeks old. I meant it at the time but by the time he was 1 I changed my mind. He was devastated when I said I didn't want more, even cried bless him but left me to it. Give him time hun xxx

missing370user

missing370user

If I get him drunk one night and then he'll say yes 😂 then he can't change his mind lol na but on a serious note I really do hope he agrees to another one - day. It's important to me that my boys not a only child, they learn so much having a sibling. Thanks girls you really do help lots, love this app. Wish u all lived in the same place xxx @jem @nic881

nic881

Nicola

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (33 нед.)

My partner is 33 and said this is our last I'm having a second daughter, I always imagined I would have a big family so I'm a little upset that he insists we have no more but I'm just hoping that when the 2 we will have grow up a little he may change his mind, I think your OH may change his mind because he knows it's what you want, it's still early days xx

sp28346

sp28346

@suzie31, sounds to me like that's why he said it!! yes good plan, I'm sure in a few months or maybe not even that long he will be back to wanting more. It's like when you argue and say you want to break up but you don't actually want that xxx

missing370user

missing370user

@jem29, mine is exactly the bloody same, makes it hard to take anything seriously. He said he didn't want anymore when he was really tired and we both had a hard night with the baby. So that might of had something to do with it. He is knackered. Perhaps if I keep my gob shut about it then bring it up in say 10 mins? Haha few months maybe? Even if he would just say it's possible I'm happy with that rather than a blunt fat no more kids. @beccastirlingx xxx

sp28346

sp28346

my boyfriend is 35 too, he wants more, but he also has this fickle personality and changes his mind a lot about things, so if it were me I'd be inclined to take it with a pinch of salt, he may be saying this from being overwhelmed right now? xxxx

beccastirlingx

Becca Stirling

В ожидании первенца

@suzie31, still plenty of time! My dad had my little brother when he was 42! I wouldn't be angry, guys will go through mixed emotions just like we do! If it was to happen I bet he would be over the moon xx

missing370user

missing370user

@winterbaby95,

missing370user

missing370user

@winterbaby95, Exactly it's not old at all, it's ridiculous. We've already fallen out over it. 😦 xx

winterbaby95

Bethany

Мама дочки-младенца

@suzie31 35 isn't old hah :) You never know..you may have a surprise baby in the future ;) Maya was a surprise :) xx

missing370user

missing370user

I don't think he'll be changing his mind. His reasons are he's 35, thinks he's to old and he's happy with the 3 of us. Has a 10 year old from previous marriage aswell. @winterbaby95 xx

winterbaby95

Bethany

Мама дочки-младенца

To be honest after having Maya...I was just happy having her :) but also liked the idea of having more :) Xx

winterbaby95

Bethany

Мама дочки-младенца

Don't hate him hun :) he will come round to it. Don't worry :) xx

winterbaby95

Bethany

Мама дочки-младенца

My OH was like this :) throughout my pregnancy :) Maya is nearly 10 weeks :) he has now agreed to having a few more :) in a few years :) xx