and they asked me why I was doing this to them when I left to be in a better environment for my kids. sorry for my rant. it happens almost every time I talk about it.

some people are just like that. What my first son was born my parents let my friend move in the day of and when they found out that she was pregnant they support her 100% but they told me that my boyfriend isn't going to change because my last one didn't and got mad at me. when I had a seizure and needed to go to the hospital because I had a seizure and needed to go to the hospital my mom wouldn't go with me because she needed "to take care of the house" the people there were perfectly capable of doing it themselves...so I left and moved back to michigan with my boyfriend because they said they would help me and didn't actually care to. I don't care if you have friends there you take care of your family the same way no different. some people just don't know better than that I guess.

@taylormarie1312, i wouldnt let that get to you beacuse honestly its ignorance and favouritism which is not fair... you have more important things to think about now that you are pregnant your self and honestly that should just fall off your shoulders.. i know it hurts but dont make them satisfied that your hurt or jealous by their actions ....your baby and your family is all you should be worried about... not trying to be rude or anything but i was in sort of the same situation and i learned that the more you feed in to it the more they are going to do it and make you more upset... so baby girl keep your head up and focus on your family...

She should be just as happy about your child being her nephew or neice.. If she isnt going to show any love for it, how can she be a good aunt? I would let this one slide for right now, but if she continues to only care for the other, then talk to your brother.