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Okay this isn't pregnancy or baby related but our chocolate lab has really bad anxiety issues and me and my boyfriend…

Okay this isn't pregnancy or baby related but our chocolate lab has really bad anxiety issues and me and my boyfriend went to the store today and came back home and she had peed and pooped on the floor (thankfully we have hard wood floors so it was easy clean up) we take her out before we leave and she uses the bathroom but when we come home she either gets in the trash or pees or poops I'm not sure what to do. Getting rid of her is not an option because I look at her as my baby (weird I know but I've always thought that with my pets) she's also been very excited about the baby she lays her head on my tummy everyday. When my boyfriend got her she was I'm bad shape her old owners just dumped her on the side of the road and left her. I'm just asking for some ideas to help us get her out of this habit before our daughter gets here

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michellevaldez4750

Michelle ValdezМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

The vet may be able to give her anti anxiety meds. I had a cat on buspar before. It helped a lot

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courtney017

CourtneyВ ожидании первенца

@katarama I'm never gonna give up on here she's amazing she just had a bad past

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mother.of.angels

AmandaМама двоих (младенец)

put her in a kennel every time she is left unattended. put a dog bed in it for comfort.

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scurlock.mommy

Hannah ClarkВ ожидании первенца

No problem! just please please please don't give up on her!! She's just scared and trying to adjust. 💕 We rescued a dog back in October that my friend had seen get thrown out of a car; she didn't adjust well at all to our pugs and my boyfriend wasn't used to rescue animals and didn't have the patience so he made me give her back. 😪😪 I regret it every day! She was so sweet, just extremely scared and not used to being loved.

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courtney017

CourtneyВ ожидании первенца

@katarama thank you!

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courtney017

CourtneyВ ожидании первенца

@twinscomingsoon me too lol. I'm trying to get her to eat now but she always feels like she's not allowed but she will eat if I'm sitting next to her

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scurlock.mommy

Hannah ClarkВ ожидании первенца

and we always give them a treat once they're in there to make sure they know they aren't in trouble!

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scurlock.mommy

Hannah ClarkВ ожидании первенца

Crate training will probably be your best bet! Just make it a place she enjoys being in; it'll probably be a little difficult at first because she'll be scared but just keep at it and keep her in there for as short a time as possible! We always put toys in there and a bone, as well as one of our old pillows for them to lay on to make sure it's a place that they like being.

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twinmommy523

BriannaВ ожидании первенца

@courtney017, even bad pups are good pups. Lol they just need extra loving. I'm such a sucker for dogs.

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courtney017

CourtneyВ ожидании первенца

@aljf she's already sniffing the diapers lol I think it's cute when she looks in the crib for the baby. She's so excited

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courtney017

CourtneyВ ожидании первенца

@twinscomingsoon lol I know I just don't want others to think she is bad

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aljf

SarahВ ожидании первенца

That's how my pit is, the owners tased her, so she's very sketchy and gets nervous if she feels like she's in trouble, but she's kennel trained and everything but I reward her if I have to put her in there, we kinda got lucky our house has a mud room " like a back room porch that's in closed" so I've actually been able to put her back there and her not mess anything up! her kennel is back there too just open so she lays in it! I also read that when you have the baby, while your still in the hospital have someone bring like a blanket or clothes the baby has wore to let the dog get the scent of the baby!

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twinmommy523

BriannaВ ожидании первенца

@courtney017, oh I don't mean she's a bad dog I just mean avert her attention to a positive thing like a nice juicy meaty bone so she doesn't get so anxious while you are gone. My dogs are good dogs too they just were very neglected before we got them so for a while they would all ban together and howl. All three are rescues.

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courtney017

CourtneyВ ожидании первенца

стикер

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courtney017

CourtneyВ ожидании первенца

@littlemissrainesmommy Thank you! she's a really good dog but she gets nervous because of her past with being left behind and abused. I wish I could find her old owners and do to them what they did to her

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mommy_broadway

Isha Lena BroadwayВ ожидании первенца

crate train!!! we've had to start over again with our youngest! she's starting to learn again... it takes time a lot of patience.. but I hope it works for you

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klove2016

Keara 🌻В ожидании первенца

Kennel her

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courtney017

CourtneyВ ожидании первенца

@babes87101116 I have an old shirt that I put on here when we left one time I had only worn it once and she was fine when we got back but we were only home for about 10 minutes. we were gone for about an hour and a half today

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courtney017

CourtneyВ ожидании первенца

@jana.bear she's a chocolate lab so she's gonna need a good sized one

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housfullofgrls

JessieМама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Put a shirt that smells like you in the crate, and make it fun to go in there. A favorite treat or toy every time she goes in, and a treat/rewarding game when she comes out. Fun fun fun!!!!!

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jana.bear

jana.bearВ ожидании первенца

My dog freaks out in the kennel for a good hour and then calms down and curls up. He's got lots of blankie and I give him a treat when he goes in and comes out. He's crated with a smaller 20 lb dog and that has helped a lot too. So he has a crate buddy.

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courtney017

CourtneyВ ожидании первенца

@jana.bear I will have to give it a try thank you! I'm just worried how she will be when we go to the hospital to have the baby. She gets so scared when I'm not with her

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pixiestix

KaraМама сына (5 лет)

Definitely would give crate training a try.

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jana.bear

jana.bearВ ожидании первенца

My dog was extremely abused at well. The crate has kept him from getting into trouble and injuring himself.

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courtney017

CourtneyВ ожидании первенца

@twinscomingsoon She isn't a bad dog it's just because of her past. It breaks my heart to know how she was treated before we got her

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mommysbabies

Ashley Мама сына-младенца, беременна (14 нед.)

Have you tried the jackets they sell or giving the dog a blanket with you guys scent on it

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courtney017

CourtneyВ ожидании первенца

@jana.bear Thank you! she was abused before my boyfriend found her so she's got a lot of emotional problems.

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twinmommy523

BriannaВ ожидании первенца

Get a meaty bone. They are gross looking cause they are still juicy and still have meat on them but that might help avert her attention while you are gone for a short time. That's what we do with our dogs they would sit at our door and howl and cry and scream like we were torturing them! It was awful then we started giving them treats and bones and it was like they completely forgot about us until we got home.

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jana.bear

jana.bearВ ожидании первенца

I highly recommend crate training. My mutt has severe anxiety and destroys stuff. This way he's safe and I don't have to worry about my house being wrecked. You can find a lot of literature about crating online.

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My baby girl does not let me do anything all day 😭 I'm lucky if everything is done before my s.o gets home , she cried…

My baby girl does not let me do anything all day 😭 I'm lucky if everything is done before my s.o gets home , she cried so I pick her up to feed her and change her diaper and once she's on my breast she eats and I burp her put her down and she'll cry I get her again and she's on my breast not even latched on just smelling my boobs 😭 I'm like girl really lmao she wants me to carry her or be with her all day , girl I wish I could lmao