Just found out my first sons father is with a chic that has kids......I'm a bit bitter! that motherfucker couldn't be…

There's a difference in him being there with her. And being a family with you. Those kids aren't his responsibility in his brain, he's not responsible. it's easier for him to be there and not have to take care of a kid that's not his. But to be there and know he must take care of a child that is his, is a lot harder when they are not responsible. I had to deal with the same mess from my kids dad. It wasn't until I realized that that I was able to get over it. You can't raise a man. Either they want to be responsible or not.

Oh damn what a loser girl oh well you're better off

that sounds like a good plan @mantha823 !! lol

@curvymommy, smdh let's throw them all on a deserted island!!!

my husbands sperm donor is the same way!! he can't be bothered with his one and only child but will take of his crack whores kids.

sad thing is he came into my son's life for a couple of months and left again only for me to find this out.....I'm trying NOT to let it bother me bc he uses girls like no other but it does bother me @luvmyboldens

don't be he is using her for housing and food sweetheart he don't care to have the kids

oh yeah bc he can't get his own place he just dates girls n moves in with them in a heartbeat true deadbeat @mimiz

Food stamps and housing she must be well off 🙄