Mommas who been married for a couple years answer me this and sorry if tmi! Has marriage really come…

Not even actually married yet and it has already turned to this 😞 used to be sweet and loving. now its just a quickie and we are done.

I'm not married but we been engaged for a while && that's totally my fiancé I hated it && it turned me off , he finally got the point after I would make an excuse every time he did that .... and I mean I would literally wake up to him taking my clothes off

Was with a man for 8 years who always did that. Divorced him and found a man who loves foreplay, I'm much happier now

I'm not married just yet but I have been with my bf for almost 6 years and yes on some occasions it is like that. We have a 3 year old always around us, we both work full time and now with me being pregnant he and I are just too sleepy so we can go a couple weeks without sex.. But let me tell you as soon as we find that "little" time it is more like "pull your pants down" "hurry up before Gio wakes up from his nap" 😂.. We do take little couple trips here and there and that's the only way I think I got pregnant a second time was bc for my Birthday in October we stayed in a hotel for 2 days hahahah so we took our time lol!

It's hit or miss here. I work nights, he works days, so my nights of we're able to mess around more, but during the week it's usually a quickie. It was just quickies all the time, but we talked about it and found a perfect middle ground!

ours depends on circumstances. sometime we just want a release, but I do love the build up.. it's hard for me to really enjoy it without the buildup.

I will be married for almost six years. We have times to where we rip one another's clothes off with no foreplay, then there is times we foreplay and tease. It all depends on how long it's been for us, because we have three kids and one on the way

Sometimes yes :-\ but if or when it does talking about the issue and how to change it works. I'll be married 10 years on the 26th and jr and I still have spontaneous sex especially now that the kids go to school. You really need to work at it all the time. marriage really is a lot of work!

it depends. having a child takes up much time and if you dont have someone to watch her then you need to do what you can. when our child was younger we would do it while she was entertained watching toons. now that shes older we have to do it when she is sleeping or being watched by granma, so any opportunity is taken if theres nothing else that is to be done or if we have the energy. still we dont do quickies we take some time to warm up and cuddle even if its short and make sure we are both satisfied. marriage and sex definitely changes after kids

We've been married 3 and even if it's 'quick' my hubby is all about me so I always get what I need out of it. We always take to time to ease into things and cuddle after. I would talk to yours if you're not happy with how things are going, it's a little awkward but you need to have that portion of your life satisfied just like him.

Thank u all ladies for ur input and advice! I appreciate all the comments!!!!! Glad I'm not alone lol @ashalay88 @babes87101116 @hladybug @kristinamarie_1996 @melinda2011131416 @michellevaldez4750 @mommywhit2 @kristinamarie_1996 @motheroftwojk @wiccanmommy @yahuahsdaughter

Omg you just explained my life. Lol. I've explained to him an uncountable amount of times that it is NOT sexy and I will not be into it. He still doesn't get it, although he's starting to catch on cause I've been showing him the difference between asking and.. Initiating haha. We've been together 6yrs but it'll be 3yrs married in May. I swear it started right after he put a ring on it no less haha. Mind you, we'd already had a kid at that point, so I'm sure that plays a part too, but damn! I just want it to be more than just "wham bam thank ya ma'am". 😝

😂😂 exactly how I feel!!! @evococa

Haha yeah it sucks dude. 😝

Idk sometimes I like it like that. It gives me a different feel than the intimate foreplay stuff. Sometimes I want to be walking in the house with and sun dress on and you see me throw me on the couch and just put it in. I don't mind lol. It's sexy both ways to me

I'm really late sorry lol