Does anyone else have a difficult stubborn ass man?! He drives me nuts. And he's dead set on naming…

yep I told him I was going 2 name the baby what I wanted to it was up to him to sign the papers or I would c him in court like jr is what my uncle calls his dog no I'm not doing that

I'd rather argue about that, my husband wants to name him after his best friend, but I said no.

Good for you! I told him that I had my reasons as to why I didn't want him named Andrew James. One I'm not keen on Andrew for a first name and I don't want a single soul calling him AJ. I have a ex boyfriend I was with for a long time who killed my heart named AJ and I'm not having my son be called that! @lil_bigmama

I told him that we were going to have to come upon some sort of agreement @kay.forsha

how about have his name be your sons middler name.

amen my husband like it's our last kid & a boy I want some say like u have ur say but u want to make it hard so it's my way

@tiffrae, I tried that and he said no. And @lil_bigmama I understand this is his only boy, but it's not fair I should have some say in what I want my child's name to be!

he can have two middle names. come up with a first name and then use both his names as the middle. I find it mean that some men choose to do this when they already are giving their last name. you have to carry and care for this child while you have no say in his name. BS

@tiffrae, this man has been putting me through so much effing stress he's lucky I'm still together with him! And I wasn't even sure I was going to have the baby have his last name! So he should just be grateful he's getting a damn son, who he acts like he could give 2 shits about but when he saids jump I'm suppose to say how high?! Frig that man. I'm standing my ground on this one.

That's crazy my husband knows me to well I don't play I've had my son name picked out for years now

I say Do it.

It just bothers me that he can't out of respect for me be like " ok Jess we can just have my name be the middle" he has to be an ass about it. I highly doubt he just picked out his daughters names and his ex wife was just like ok! 😒 like wtf. I'm already leaving my family, friends and doctors to move 3 hours away to live with him where I don't know a soul! Or the city or anything. This pregnancy has been hard on me and I'm high risk. But he's just being selfish in this matter and I don't like it. I'm willing to be flexible on names and he's being a jerk about it.

@lil_bigmama, @tiffrae @kay.forsha

don't let him get u down girl u got this name ur kid what u want & he'll just have to get over himself I'll b praying 4 yall

Thank you! @lil_bigmama