@mantha823, if only there was a place i could go. im hoping he will step up but who knows. all i know is im going to be doing this for my son and thats it.

can you move in with a family member? doesn't seem like ur man is really in this and I'm sorry for that. you need a better place for u and ur baby.....they can sense if ur not happy.

@mantha823, dont think so.. think im alone in this no matter what.

ah he needs to step on up and start moving it all.....it's his baby too....hope he gets some space for you to be able to get everything ready.

no i have a bassinet just no room in this place. we have a 10x10 room.. my husband has been no help in cleaning it and where i want to put everything his moms shit it in the way which means heavy lifting for me to move it all.@mantha823,

bassinet? some pack n plays come with a bassinet so when they outgrow the bassinet they can sleep in the pack n play. Are you having trouble finding one?

@mantha823, trying to be. its just getting hard. im due in 4 weeks and i dont even know where im going to have my baby sleep.

u ok?

:(