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Sam G.
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How do you feel about tickling children? Not in a sick way, in a playful way. I personally remember hating it as a kid.…

How do you feel about tickling children? Not in a sick way, in a playful way. I personally remember hating it as a kid. Now as an adult, my husband understands that he can't tickle me if he wants me to trust him. I am thinking about instating a no tickle rule for my child. Do you think that is being overprotective/helicopter mom? Have you done something similar? Serious input please.

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bekka1071

Rebecca

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yeah, its rude, just because they're little a defenceless doesnt mean to keep going. it means stop.

sam.g

Sam G.

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I know some people in my childhood took it too far. They just thought it was soooo cuuute that I said, "Leave alone me!" and knew that I said it when I was tickled. Honestly I am a little mad thinking about it now.

sam.g

Sam G.

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@bekka1071, thanks. I feel like a tiny bit here and there is one thing, but if they clearly hate it and I need to tell someone to stop more than once, they will have to feel the wrath of the Mama Bear. :)

bekka1071

Rebecca

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my baby is a month old and when I found out that he didnt like to be tickled I told everyone to knock it off. just read babys cues and you'll know whats best. :)

sam.g

Sam G.

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My biggest issue is that laughter is a reflex from the tickling. I don't want people (honestly, I am worried about my FIL going too far) thinking that baby is enjoying it. @tamayobaby I feel kinda crazy in this, but I can't explain how much I hate it.

that_premiee_mom

Sarina💋

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i tickle my son all the time he loves it but i tickle him to a certain point.where he doesnt get all mad or frustrated with it

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