WARNING RELATIONSHIP VENT AHEAD:
I'm so close to packing all my stuff and the babies and just leaving. Throughout my whole pregnancy I stayed because I love you, but maybe that isn't enough. I'm sick and tired of you getting frustrated with me because I'm "too sensitive" and me apologizing to you for upsetting you. Well maybe if you were more considerate of my feelings. I'm sorry I'm self conscious and have trust issues, but whose fault is that? Yours. You cheated. You did wrong. So why am I always the one apologizing. You say you want to be with me and want to work things out, but I see little to no effort coming from you. I just don't know how much more of this I can take.
@loridann you honestly should not have to ask him when u r fed up n ready to leave you will leave when you r ready too
Ill be honest most people do but you have to stand your ground and id say would you want a man to treat your daughter the way your treating me and if he cant say no and change into a man hed want for his daughter a man his daughter could b proud of id leave
@loridann, I know it's easier said then done, but you just have to come out with it. If he switches it around, tell him you're packing yours and your kids stuff and you're leaving. That you can't take the one sided arguments.
@mom13, I just don't know how to confront him, he always finds a way to turn it around on me
@r.i.pmyangel, sometimes I wish he would kick me out.. I've suggested leaving and he totally against it. I wonder if it's because he actually wants to be with me or he just doesn't want to be what he calls a "weekend parent".
As my grandma would always say "buck up and stand up. We are not objects we are people with feelings." That is what she would always tell me when I was in a rough relationship. You have to take a stand. No more apologizing. Show him you no longer are going to the shit and are done apologizing for his actions.
i know how u feel my ex always did that got mad when i told him how i felt made me seem like i was in the wrong never listened he cheated n i stayed he kick me out n i still went bk to him the next morning he never said sorry for anything it was his way or no way
all i want are some more mama friends. why must is be this hard! i just met you.. this is crazy but here's my number so call me maybe? 👭
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Don't you just love it when people try to out do you...I got pregnant so all of a sudden a certain someone wants to be pregnant because I'm getting a bit more attention!!
Finally going to talk to him tonight when he gets home. I'm so nervous. Can it be after 9 already?