Finally going to talk to him tonight when he gets home. I'm so nervous. Can it be after 9 already?

@loridann you honestly should not have to ask him when u r fed up n ready to leave you will leave when you r ready too

Ill be honest most people do but you have to stand your ground and id say would you want a man to treat your daughter the way your treating me and if he cant say no and change into a man hed want for his daughter a man his daughter could b proud of id leave

@loridann, I know it's easier said then done, but you just have to come out with it. If he switches it around, tell him you're packing yours and your kids stuff and you're leaving. That you can't take the one sided arguments.

@mom13, indeed she is lol.

@mom13, I just don't know how to confront him, he always finds a way to turn it around on me

@mah_mammi, wise women your grandmother is

@r.i.pmyangel, sometimes I wish he would kick me out.. I've suggested leaving and he totally against it. I wonder if it's because he actually wants to be with me or he just doesn't want to be what he calls a "weekend parent".

As my grandma would always say "buck up and stand up. We are not objects we are people with feelings." That is what she would always tell me when I was in a rough relationship. You have to take a stand. No more apologizing. Show him you no longer are going to the shit and are done apologizing for his actions.

ur worth way more then hes giving u credit

dont take it any more stand up for ur self

i know how u feel my ex always did that got mad when i told him how i felt made me seem like i was in the wrong never listened he cheated n i stayed he kick me out n i still went bk to him the next morning he never said sorry for anything it was his way or no way