@kelseys, some of us never had showers for our previous babies. this is my 7th pregnancy. one living toddler. we need a reason to celebrate lol

You can look on pinterest, that might help you get started if you decide that's what you want to do!

its would be my first, I just am lost on it like a 100% and have no one to really help plan it

I think it depends.... if its your first baby then yes definitely! but if its your second and its the same gender as your first then no but if its the opposite then yes. a had a shower for my first which was a boy. didn't for my second since its a boy but if this one is a girl then I'll have one.

@halibug, I just have no idea where to start. is it with the hassle of me doing it all by myself

Yes! With my second I'm wanting to do a gender reveal party and ask for gift cards instead of making a registry.