Ladies I need help from anyone who is willing. But this might be a bit of a TMI. So warning. My SO and I were attempting to get intimate tonight and he stopped and freaked out because he said that he can feel the baby while we were doing it and now he will not have sex with me at all because 1. He feels like he's touching the baby with his "parts" and 2. He can feel him in my stomach when he's against me. Please help ladies!!! I don't know what to do. 😔
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I have an appt on Thursday and I think I'm gunna talk to him about it to just tell him what he says and maybe he will stop being a baby. @courtney017 And yeah I know haha @lexirosex3
@kendalynnv my boyfriend freaked because when they checked me when I first found out I bled a little and he thought for the longest he would cause me to bleed and that would hurt our daughter
Search it up and show him lol.. He needs PROOF.
@kendalynnv oh! I see lol. my boyfriend stopped having sex with me for like a week when I got bigger and I talked to my OB and she said no matter how big a man is he can't reach the baby. It's in their head that they are hurting the baby because that's where they come from. There are other ways to be sexual while pregnant.
I don't think he would go to talk about that. He's not as open with stuff like this as I am and my OB is a guy also and he doesn't like that. So. Yeah. @courtney017
my boyfriend was the same. We now do it I'm our side or in doggy mostly on our side. He's big also (TMI I know) take him to ur next appointment with you and talk to ur ob so he knows he's not hurting the baby.
I just convinced him he's not hurting her,but he loves doggie so as long as we do it like that he's fine. he won't do it any other way tho. @kendalynnv
I wish he would just get it through his head. Cuz at this point.... I don't know how long I can go without it haha @jjmom12345678
I've tried to tell him so so so many times. And the spooning only works for so long before I get a cramp. 😕 @raegenice
well he's definitely not hurting the baby. but my boyfriend thinks the same way lol @kendalynnv
He definitely isn't anywhere near the baby. Tell him there is literally no way he can touch the baby with his parts unless the baby is already crowning.
I agree theirs no way he can feel him lol
Lol it's not even possible for him to feel the baby and sorry to say his dong cannot reach past your cervix, no matter how big he is. Doggie style or spooning might be best if you haven't tried it
Haha it's like something in his mind. He's so suborn. @shananaginsx
He doesn't like doggie. He likes the "access"... You know what I mean. @susanna1125
Haha I've tried. He just gets mad at me. @shananaginsx
do it doggie so he's not touching your belly. that's the only way my boyfriend will have sex with me lol
Tell him to quit being a baby and that he is not going to hurt him at all!!!!!
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Do you mommies talk to your baby???....I feel bad because I don't talk to him....I hope he can recognize my voice when he's born😳
@kendalynnv hope all goes well for you!