k so i have a question....no judgements please and if youre gonna get snarky with me im the last one…

I don't think your over reacting ill probably feel the same as well

You're definitely not overreacting at all! If you're not comfortable with something he needs to respect that

i just wont associate myself with someone who thinks thats okay. its whats in best interest for my child

Your as smart as they come! I can already tell you're going to be a great mother. Your SO needs to figure out what's more important

i mean why put your own kid in the way of you getting in trouble with the law!! they have a 2 yo and they do illegal shit but i WILL NOT have them near my baby or my son. any gift theyve given us i give it back. and my husband is like oh thanks and takes as much as he can

like really dude

no u have every right to that way I would feel the same n remove my self as well bcuz at the end of the day not only is it being selfish ur also gunna end up in a situation were u can be tooken away from ur child n nobody ever wants that I think removing ur self n surrounding ur self-with responsible ppl is better n safer bcuz everything in life bad or good has a effect on ur life keep ur head up mama it'll be ok

than you @mira423 you have no idea how much that means to me. i just dont want them around my child and ive already made it crystal-clear they are not welcome in my hospital room let alone to be around my child

thank you @deanna009 im trying not to stress cuz I know my seamonkey feels it but man i really feel like im solo in my thought process half the time

I agree with u .. Follow ur gut ur mommy instincts are kicking in

not stupid at all their into illegal doings and you're not having anything to do with it, That's very understandable and you being his wife he should respect that and not bring it around you....Hope it gets better Hun ♡

EXACTLY!!! holy hell thank you. like i have a 2yo and a baby on board i dont need the stress and the constant reminder i could easily be taken from my child if they decided they want to say i know them. all ties have been cut and i feel a little better about it but not 100 yet @dreamie702

yw....sometimes us mothers have to do way we have to protect our children n ull feel like that for a Lil bit but it's worth it bcuz ur Lil one will be right by ur side

thank you ladies @10yearslater0205 @alexandrea777 i just want the best for my kids and illegal business is not how i want to raise them. if only he had the same mindset i do, thats my biggest weakness, thinking everyone has the same heart as me

You're right on with your feelings....

I told my baby daddy he could chose to be with his friends that are in and out of jail with multiple babies and not take care of them or he could be there for me and our baby girl. Having a baby makes you grow up, even if you don't want to, it's a decision you have to make for yourself. You're 100% correct on how you feel and he needs to respect that and figure out what he's going to do.