Okay so I have an 8 week old baby right? Any mama's can understand that having a newborn is a job in itself. (A job that I LOVE) but I am literally up all night and driving everywhere running multiple errands, doing community service, working my ass off, basically a billion things. I breastfeed and so I already have to do that in my 2 door car all day long. My step moms aunt is like 60 years old, and I am about to strangle the bitch. Why? Because when I'm up all night and running all day, I like to come home and get maybe 5 minutes of rest. Not entertain some lady I hardly know who wants to go boohoo bc she doesn't think I want her here. I DONT. making me take you to the store constantly to walk around for hours meanwhile my baby is hungry, I'm engorged and exhausted. Then ask what I'm doing tommorrow and after I tell you the list of things I have going on, have the nerve to ask me to take you to several stores (which would take an entire day and night to do lmao) and paint your nails. Have you seen my nails??? If I had time for that shit mine would be done but they haven't been since my son was born. I can't even go downstairs in my own home because she wants to follow me around constantly and talk my head off. My baby eats every hour pretty much so back off and let me get what I need to get done before he wakes up! Here's the best part, my stepmom said she invited her to stay because she wanted to take stress off of me taking care of the dogs. This has literally quadrupled my stress level and I've been babysitting an old lady who has hurt herself multiple times and broken multiple things in her stay there. She also just made me walk with the baby in the stroller to go check on some "pens" for her computer to see if they got delivered at another house. Of course they didn't. Apparently she didn't get the pens or nail plush she bought while we were at Walmart the other day, but guess who just showed me her two brand new bottles of nail polish and was sitting in the recliner using one of those "pens" on her tablet?!
Okay I'm done ranting 😊
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well until she leaves, tell her you can't take her anywhere when she asks. if she really needs something done, then she'll ask her daughter or someone else because your busy. my mil always expects my husband to take her to the stores since she's never had a license to drive, and I always tell him, if she won't help us when we need her to watch the kids for me to go to work or school, then you can't take her to the stores, when she has other kids that drive and a husband.
That's exactly what she did, thinking she's slick. Oh I'm definitely not taking her, I couldn't even if I wanted to! I have wayyyyy too much to do so she can gtfo. She's leaving Thursday THANK GOD 🙏🏼
and especially if its your house, then nobody else but you should say who stays and doesn't their, not your step mom, that's actually rude that she had her stay there without asking you.
kind of sounds like your step mom did that so she wouldn't have to do it. straight up either tell that women no, you can't take her or tell your step mom to send her back where she came from.
The thing is, she has been here a week. And the reason for her being invited was to take stress OFF OF ME, but she's done the complete opposite, it's ducking ridiculous. You're right my STEPMOM should be doing it but because she works I guess it's just too much for her. I wish the only thing I had to do in life was work and chill.. Lmao KIDDING I love my life and all of the craziness but I could do without their people overloading me with THEIR needs. I have to take care of myself too, damn. @kelseys
its not your grandma so why are you the one doing shit for her?,your step mom should be doing that.
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