@mrsthig, same with my hubs every name he hate but won't think of a name himself. @mkohl83 my daughter's middle name is a family name so for my son I want it to be orginal. I grew up with a non common name and my husband's name is james so he doesn't understand that I want different names. Everyone is moving from San Diego at least where I'm from lol.

if i were having a boy i was going to name him Joel Antonio

My husband and I couldn't agree on any names... I absolutely love Grayson but my hubby didn't do we agreed and decided to name him Matthew after my husbands best friend of 33+ years and babies middle name will be my father in laws name which is a family name that has been passed down :) btw I'm originally from San Diego born and raised.... Until hubby got transferred here 😞