So I've been thinking about applying to work at Hooter's. Not really for anything but my self…

So I've been thinking about applying to work at Hooter's. Not really for anything but my self esteem, to show myself that I'm still sexy enough to work there. (Have felt VERY unattractive lately). My husband said I should if it will help build up my self esteem, but my older cousin named John doesn't want me to and keeps trying to talk me out of it. I don't expect him to understand how I feel after having a baby, but I wish he would just stay out of it. It's pissing me off.