So my SO'S friend "female" just came to the house to use our shower. Okay, that's fine.. Well then my SO went in our bedroom and shut the door (you have to go through our room to get to our shower). So I barged in there and they were just talking, on separate sides of the room, but I still got upset and started crying. My SO is now mad at me for getting upset.. I just don't know what to do anymore.
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@junebug2016, I completely agree with you.
I'm okay @emileeann43 I've sort of gotten used to it over the past 5 months, I just keep telling myself that I just have to get through this pregnancy and I can find a job and save up to find a place for me and my little one.
He would just have to get pissed. bye bye heifer. you don't go in my bedroom with my man and close the door. nope nope nope. and her living situation should have nothing to do with respect for you.
U r his partner/his significant other and the mother of his child. They instantly trumps u over her. It doesn't matter if he pays the bills or how long u have held a relationship with him. He needs to respect those boundaries and his friends too. And it is completely ur place to say something if his friends make u feel uncomfortable
I'm sorry you have to go through that :(
My life is pretty crappy right now @emileeann43 @rockysmommy I've been dealing with this since I got pregnant and I had to quit my job when I got pregnant because I'm a high risk pregnancy and so I can't leave because I have nowhere to go..
That would bother me SO much. And for him to not understand that is kinda crampy
@babyhorton16, it's a respect thing towards you though. Brandon my boyfriend has friends he's known for longer than me and would never invite them over if he knew it would upset me like that. Guys should think logically. What if the roles were reversed? What if you had went into the room with another guy that had just showered and shut the door?
They have been friends for longer than I have been in the picture. Me and SO have been together for about 3 years and they've been friends for waaaayyyy longer than that. So he says that it's not my place to say anything about her coming over. @rockysmommy
Hm yeah I wouldn't have been okay with that at all
@babyhorton16, why did she even come over? I feel like girls know boundaries and I would know that that shit isn't okay. I would've told him to get out.
It's not my decision. SO owns the house and pays all the bills and she is his friend. That's pretty much how it goes I guess. @junebug2016
Hmm sounds shady. His female friend has clearly no respect for u just so u know. If she had some respect for you she would have found somewhere else to shower or at least asked u for permission not him. I wouldn't have her around anymore
She's just sitting here in our living room now.. He made her a plate of dinner I cooked and now we're all just sitting here in silence.. I can't tell her to leave or SO will get really mad, not about me telling her to go, about me being rude to a guest. @rockysmommy
Apparently she's pretty much living place to place right now and she didn't have anywhere to take a shower.. idk, me and her get along, we just don't talk like they do. And I don't think his intentions were bad, but it still really hurt my feelings and he doesn't understand. @newmommy62016
I'd tell her to get the fuck out. I'd cry too. That's very shady of him. Especially if you have to push your door for it to shut. You can't accidentally close a door like that.. She can find someone else's damn shower.
yeaaaa that wouldn't fly with me at all.. wth wrong with her shower... also, is that the only bathroom in the house? even IF it wasn't anything, he should still understand how that looks and also that women are soooo emotional during pregnancy and he should have been more concerned about how you feel.
I totally would've barged in too. Men just don't get it. Hopefully his intentions were good and he wasn't thinking about it?
ummm what??? there's more to that story than he's feeding you. this gives me the willies...
That was my argument and he said he didn't mean to shut it. You have to actually push our door closed so I don't believe that.. I'm just fed up. @jacesterlingsmommy
Ewe I don't like this at all either
I understand we all came blame her why is she there this that and the third but he's to blame why did he go in the room knowing she was in the shower why couldn't he have waited. If she needed anything she could have asked you or him before she got in. Him making her a plate wtf she don't have hands ugh no that's not cool. & if your door has to be push shut I wouldn't buy that story either. It doesn't matter how long he's known her you're in the picture now and there are boundaries and lines you don't cross. You have a right to say how you feel.