@tburnett21811, I hope you can work it out for you guys. It sucks to be stuck where you don't feel like you belong ot you're unhappy. If you're going to feel guilty about it you can try and stick it out for longer but it really sounds like it's just not the place for you.

@hladybug, I guess so.. on the other hand I guess I also feel guilty because I was going to drive up by myself, my bio father told me no and him and his wife came and got my daughter and I. it hasn't been that long that I've been here and just feel like they wasted their time I guess. I am dreading the convo about my daughter and I wanting to go home.

@tburnett21811, Sounds like you have plenty of reasons to go.

@hladybug, yes there was. My mother threw my daughter and I out on the streets couldn't save money to get a place. was robbing Peter to pay Paul. so I had no option but to come up here. the situation with my mother is over with. I no longer speak to her and don't care too.

@lawsonsmama , thank you mama. I guess I am just scared to uproot our life's again. But with both of us being unhappy, and when my daughter told me she was it broke my heart. it has been weighting heavy on me. Plus the baby's father is in FL, and I feel if he ever decided he wanted something to do with the baby he can't if I'm here. and in FL at least it would be easier for him to see her. ( my husband my 8 yr olds father passed away, his ashes and grave site is in FL as well. I do carry around a heart with some ashes in there but she likes to go "see" him)

my husband and I relocated to NC in March 2015 for me to accept a great job opportunity. the salary was great, they gave me $12k sign on bonus and 4 months into the job, I was miserable. I cried everyday and wanted to go home so bad. I even felt extremely guilty bc my husband had to move and uproot his life too. I quit that job and found a better one, then I found out I was pregnant in August and I was SO excited when my husband and I made the decision to move back home. we will have the baby here next month then move back in july. it will be stressful moving with a newborn but nothing changes the excitement and ending this nightmare of the past year. long story short, do what makes you happy!!!!

If you're that unhappy I'd definitely figure out a way to go back, was there a particular reason for leaving in the first place? Make sure you're just really look into all your options before you just jump, I hope you find what's best for you and your kids. 😊

I thought about that too. but I am truly miserable here. as well as my daughter is.

maybe go visit