is it normal to have cramping in ur upper stomach and lower? it's not constant just here and there :(

Yes.

Itll happen. The uterus is expanding literally up to the bottom of your breast so cramping will be felt up there. Plus the organs bein pushed around.

It can also be your pelvis shifting to accomodate for baby.

ok yes thats where it is at times and in my lower area, also my breast and I have blue veins all the way up my chest