if you feel good you can go rap yourself up really good because you should be inside for 6 weeks. The baby will be fine just don't let people all in his face, and take it easy.

I'm due May 14 😊

it's totally up to you :)
I'm just going by what I've been told.

@babypeanuts, so I should expect to still be recovering?

I been told to stay in myself and the baby. because your still bleeding.

Hahaha I honestly wouldn't trust grandmothers to listen. I mean my mom sure but if YOU feel comfortable with her listening to your decision and feelings then yes go for it for sure! Or maybe do it during nap time? Have someone watching him in the house during nap time in a pack and play or something and you go swimming during that time? That way no one will really touch him since he's sleeping

@emileeann43, thats great advice! so im assuming that means no swimming or could i tell his grandmother to not let people touch all over him and go for a little dip?

The baby can be outside but honestly...id baby wear him so people don't have their hands all over and don't like kiss him or hold him too much. Baby wearing would def help eliminate that some. I mean if you want to go, then go! But just def be careful about people touching the baby. Especially NO kissing. It can be really serious to babies and you do not know what some people have

I'm due may 17th. That's a good question, I was wondering the same thing myself.

I had my kids out right away