Valerie
violet0507
Valerie·В ожидании первенца

Ok so what would you ladies do my boyfriend has 3 kids of his own ages 9 7 & 5 our daughter should be here the beginning of May the kids come Thursday through Sunday he works Monday through Saturday . Would it be rude to ask my MIL to come watch the kids during the first few months my daughter arrives it's already hard enough watching them I can't imagine how it would be with a newborn I think I would lose it ... Please help I don't want to come off as a bitch but I also want all my attention on my baby girl 😔

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veemomx4
Vanessa·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

My kids are 10 7 and 3 I'm going to be having a new baby so my bf is in your shoes. i think a week or so of just you your hubby and new baby but just to bond also bond all togeather because thats your new family now not only you him and your child ya know. its gonna be hard kids are kids just ask for help

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mommyof2boys248
Dena·Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

I would so do that.

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violet0507
Valerie·В ожидании первенца

I would love to know if there are any other ladies in the same position or went through the same thing it would be great to know how to deal with situations like this and if it gets easier

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violet0507
Valerie·В ожидании первенца

Thanks girls my MIL is very understanding and I want the other kiddos to be involved as weIl I just don't think I'm able to take care of them all at once & didn't know if that was appropriate to ask @leesambee @live.laugh.love @harleyann @arijane316

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live.laugh.love
Sunny·Мама сына (3 года)

just remember those kids need to bond with the baby also

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arijane316
pattalee·Мама двоих (младенец)

ask her if she will just come help out. you're going to need it

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harleyann

I would definitely ask for help. Especially if this is your first baby. If you don't want to come across rude, just tell her you would greatly appreciate her help while you get the hang of having a newborn. Nothing wrong with that.

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leesambee
Pauline·Мама троих детей

get help girl!!! its very tiring with a newborn plus other kids! @violet0507

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