wedding are supposed to be a happy time and my family is ruining that for me because I won't move the date.it's just a small ceremony I know I wish my dad could be there but things happen and if they can't be supportive and understand that it's my day and for once let me have the spotlight and not try to have everyone focus on them then they don't need to be there.I'm getting married tomorrow and my bfs mom said I shouldn't have even told them but I was nice and did and now look how they are acting like a bunch of 5 year olds who didn't get any candy. I'm so fed up with there crap.if they have something to say to me they shouldn't put it on Facebook they have my number and need to quit.
I'll be honest family members getting married is the worst stress and drama I have ever been in... They are suppose to be happy, but I personally have never been part of a family or friends wedding that wasn't stressful..
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
How many of you mommies still have your cats around the house while having a new born? My ob doctor told me that I need to get rid of them, but they mean so much to me I have 3 of them and now my mother in law is making a big deal about it she always tells me and my husband to get rid of them....sucks living with the MIL 😒
I guess sharing my personal info on here means having it used against me in a personal disagreement yes I was raped and no you have no right to use my daughter against me as a personal jab
yeah and mine decided that because everything needsbto be about them that they need to post all over Facebook.and almost all are over the age of 18.I mean come on now.they tell me to grow up they need to do it themselves.three of them are over the age of 30 and one is almost 60 so I think they need to grow up .and they are only doing it because it's not there way or what they want