@rockysmommy, I wasn't either. I was a partier but I stopped the second I found out. That's what real moms do 💪🏼 haha. And now I'm all mom 100%, embarrassing myself daily. Can't go back now. I already have the stretch marks lol

@mojojojo, a lot of people aren't ready for that. I sure wasn't but I definitely am now ❤️

No. It shouldn't. But it usually does mean you'll wind up pregnant. Pregnancy doesn't make you a mom. What makes you a mom is accepting the responsibility of having a baby and doing what you need to for that baby. If you don't want that baby, you're not a mom in my eyes. You can give it up for adoption, but I'd rather never abort. But it's not my decision like I said before we all have our own reasons. It's not my life to try and control. People can do whatever they want. Lol

@rockysmommy, yes yes that's all I'm saying. I'm pro choice and got pregnant using protection and didn't even consider an abortion. I stepped up to the plate and decided to be a mom from now on. But some people my age (and other ages for that matter) aren't ready yet and that's fine too. @rockysmommy

It can be surprising. Haha. I was certainly surprised. But knowing that's a risk you're taking, that's what I'm saying. That if you want to have sex that's cool, but having sex shouldn't mean you have to be a mom. @rockysmommy

Not everyone should have to, but they should go into sex knowing it'll happen if they're not careful and then it's still possible to happen. I'm not for abortion but I'm also not one to sit here and bash someone for doing it. It's not my life, not my choice.

@sarahemccormick,

@mojojojo, but you're still taking a risk knowing that it might not always work. We do have sexual intercourse to procreate, even if that's not the only reason to do it, that is what it winds up doing. I didn't use protection I knew what I was getting myself into and it still surprised me.

I disagree with you all.

@sarahemccormick, ^

@rockysmommy, i used protection and got pregnant. I decided to have a child, but I don't think everyone should have to. Agreeing to have sex is not agreeing to being a mom in my opinion.

What @rockysmommy said. If you don't want to end up pregnant, contraceprion is a must - that, or abstinence.

Well I mean sex is fun and all but it does usually wind up with a baby if you're not trying to protect against it hard enough. My opinion is you should know and use contraception if you don't want a baby. Even if it is for procreation, you can still be surprised when you wind up pregnant. I know I was.

@rockysmommy, to the people who say you're asking to get pregnant/knowing what you're getting yourself into when you 'spread your legs'. That sex can only be for procreation and not recreation, ever.

I'm sorry can you explain this to me? I'm having a blonde moment and don't understand 😂