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Aaliyah Evans
Aaliyah Evans
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For the longest time I've felt ashamed for not feeling like a mother until someone I met today told me they felt the…

For the longest time I've felt ashamed for not feeling like a mother until someone I met today told me they felt the exact same way. During these past 9 months I've honestly felt more like a permanent babysitter rather than a mother. I don't know why.. but I guess a lot of people feel this way

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aiden_momma

Vanessa

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I've felt this way. I haven't felt much of a connection even tho I want to. one of friends said she was like this as well with her first born and everything changed after her son was born. I feel guilty for feeling this way and idk why I do but I hope that changes after I have my son. tried to get prego for three yrs and nothing and now I'm prego and I guess its mixed emotions. you're not the only one. I know I love my son I jus wish I had the connection like all the other mothers on here who are so happy about their Lil one. maybe BC my pregnancy has been hell could be another reason why I don't feel a connection yet 😥

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emmz

Emilee

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I was that way with my oldest. But with this baby it's different. And I feel guilty for not having that connection with my oldest. @nessa_475 @twinmommy

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aiden_momma

Vanessa

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I wonder why it happens @emmz 😞

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twinmommy

Aaliyah Evans

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@nessa_475, that's exactly how it's been for me. Since the day I found out I was pregnant I was always embarrassed by it.. not a lot of people saw me while I was pregnant and I never really let it be know until around the time I had them. I think it's a combination of me being 21, the rocky relationship me and their father has had for the past 2 years & the fact that I never wanted kids. Don't get me wrong, I love them to death an I'd do anything for them but I just don't feel like a mother..

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aiden_momma

Vanessa

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I was happy when I found out I was. I even cried cuz I couldn't for three yes but then I jus have felt nothing. I cried at my first ultrasound and then nothing since. I jus feel like a horrible person. I know I'll love him once he's here jus wish I had the connection during my pregnancy with him 😞 @twinmommy

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I just need to get this out ....I'm late. And I haven't felt good, more moody, felt more down and just over all…

I just need to get this out ....I'm late. And I haven't felt good, more moody, felt more down and just over all blah....ive had no energy despite the amount of Coffee I drink. Coffee has been nasty lately and I've been making it the same way for years. And I swear I feel like I did right before I tested the last time. Lord knows I have too much going on as it is 😢😭 I do have the copper IUD right now but the other day i had felt something that felt like a needle or pinching in my uterus or alittle lower where they put it at and then last night rick said he felt something in there. He's never been able to feel it before so now I'm worried about it not working right like if it fell out, or maybe moved