I don't want any visitors at the hospital other than family. I don't like any of my boyfriends…

When you go in have them tell all visitors that you aren't accepting any

But couldn't my boyfriend still go meet them and bring them to my room? Or couldn't he just tell his friends the room number? So stressed @kim5309

@briplusone, explain that you don't want any visitors to him... you don't have to let anyone in your room you don't want too...let the nurse know as well and write in your birthing plan.

He will still bring his friends in. It's his baby too and he's gonna want them to see it in the hospital. But to me this is a personal experience and I don't want any of his friends there plus I don't like them so I don't even want them around my child. Ugh I need like guards by my door 😂 @kim5309

tell him you just want family. you don't want to be overwhelmed by so many visitors.

I'm having the same problem with not wanting my mom there! 😒

He doesn't care he still wants his friends to see his baby. It's not up to me. He will still bring them in, doesn't matter what I say. That's why I was asking if the hospital could do anything about it but I guess he can still sneak them in my room. @jadestarlight

I just told my boyfriend I don't want all those people coming to the hospital, just our parents & our siblings. I don't like too many of his friends either.

I would inform the nurses. Give a list of names of people who are allowed in, and no one else is to be let in. The last thing your nurses want is a stressed out mommy!

As for your boyfriend, just try to explain to him how stressful this really is for you, and you don't want to open up thise doors to anyone else until you get more comfortable. Suggest he have his friends come over to your house to meet the baby a few days after.

visitor restrictions.. thats what im doing

at my hospital here u have to get a pass.. to even go to the maternity ward. . and theres a guard at the begjing of the wing that u have to check in with also before u ven get to the nurses desk.. im only allowing my.husband.my aunt who is my acting " doula " and my sister with me that's it

My hospital's labor & delivery is a secure ward, you have to phone in the hall before they let you through the door. Maybe check to see if yours is. Then just give the nurses a list of names of people allowed to visit. They are there for you! Tell your boyfriend that the baby isn't going anywhere, his friends can visit some other time.