I'm still pregnant but I think he will be a great big brother and big help. This one wasn't quite planned but I like the age gap because he's almost out of pull-ups and we didn't want to deal with diapers for two. It's honestly up to you and your SO but give your body at least a year. When I asked my ob and his pediatrician they said start when he turned two

they were already in there it took am extra 5 minutes honestly lol no extra healing time or anything.... my husband flat out refused to get it done

I don't know if I could ever do that, I'm too much of a baby. If anyone is getting snipped it better be my husband lol. @sarahdrew

Do you like the age difference? I want my son to have a playmate lol. @soon2b2

lol I totally understand @wonderland1202 I had a tubal in October during my 2nd c-section and now I'm like well dang idk if I should have, a bit late now lol

Yeah, my scar is still really red and not healed. I'll just have to wait, it's just so hard lol. @sarahdrew

3 years lol

my son was a year and 3 months before we started trying again.... it takes longer for a c-section to heal completely than it takes vaginal stitches to heal, they recommend waiting at least a year I beleive, due to the visible scar and the scar on your uterus needing to heal, if it's too soon you could rupture the incision site on your uterus