@reina_den, I couldn't agree more! All around more respect needs to be happening. That goes for the whole world it seems like these days though too. No one knows what common curtesy is anymore.

@candacelouise,

yea but unfortunately there are plenty of douche bags out there. i read some of the posts to my husband and it blows his mind how awful some guys can be. i mean women aren't saints either. women are catty, can get bitchy or whatever but honestly there has to be more understanding on both parts cuz there's so many things going on in our bodies. we can blame it on hormones but at the same time we need to check ourselves too and know when we arent being the nicest to those around us

@reina_den, yes! I don't care if you're together with baby daddy or not.. Each should respect each other. And most on here don't see it that way. The dads don't seem to realize how much women go through to carry their child! It's not a walk in the park. Gaining weight alone is a battle for 90% of women. Seeing your body change daily.. And not always for the better. Isn't easy on your self esteem

@candacelouise, right! i appreciate my husband more when i read those sad posts. but im sure he appreciates me more when he feels the baby move or when i feel weird symptoms

@reina_den, YES! It's so disappointing to see/read. A real man knows that he couldn't ever be a women. I wish those women who are mistreated would realize no matter how "bad" they think they are or that they "deserve" what he is doing... Would realize they don't deserved that kind of treating! Esp during pregnancy!

@candacelouise, it makes me so sad when some women on here are not appreciated or are abused or mistreated..i mean we don't know the whole stories to the situations but still. we are carrying living beings! that alone should be respected cuz men will never know the struggles we go through.

@reina_den, , omg yessss! Every time I see a mom on here carrying multiplies.. I just think how!? And that's because I've had a very easy pregnancy. Hardly any symptoms at all! And barely any discomfort. I can't imagine more than one though. Praise those women. Lol

@candacelouise, oh man i know what you mean! there are days im at work and im like "man, pregnancy is hard work!" ive texted my mom on several occasions how crazy it mustve been for her carrying my twin brothers. i'm barely coping well with just one! feeling the baby is the craziest thing! like theres a little creature in there!

@reina_den, Lol, that's a good way to look at it. Yesss... I've had surgery once already and actually was supposed to have it again.. Then got a post ice pregnancy test! Ha, thankfully the women in my family are fertile! My mom had the surgery 7 times and was still able to conceive my brother and I... On the depo shot 🙈. Doctor didn't believe she was pregnant when she told him, and finally at 4 months my mom made him do a blood draw and sure enough she was 4 and half months pregnant. It's such a an amazing process! Having two heart beats, being able to grow and provide nutrients for an adult and a little baby growing and maturing.. It's just insane what the women's body can endure!

@candacelouise, yea he "forgot." whatevs he'll get some tom while i'm at work. it'll be something to look forward to😝 oh no you have endometriosis? that stinks! i cant even imagine the pain but i'm so happy you got pregnant.. i know it can be a struggle for women with that condition. i love being pregnant too esp since the loss but man i cant help but say it is uncomfortable but i appreciate it all.

@reina_den, awe good, I am trying to if it would slow down! I love being pregnant.. Everyone thinks I'm crazy but they don't know the monthly pain that comes with having endometriosis. Oh nooooo! Did you ask/state kindly if he forgot something..... Lol

@candacelouise, i agree! im enjoying the pregnancy more and more now... my husband didnt bring mangoes! 😫

@reina_den, awwwe I'm sorry to hear that! But I'm sure it was for the best! Normally babies that don't make it, are sickly! Or that's how I like to think of it. I can see why pregnancy would go by slower! Obviously that puts more stress. But you're already much further! And plus it's so exciting when you have someone to share it with!

@candacelouise, we had a loss at 10weeks last yr so im still on edge with this one but still super excited

@reina_den, haha I didn't test till 4 weeks but I knew at 2. It's crazy how much changes.. But I wasn't planning so I was just hoping (I love my baby boy now don't get me wrong !!!) that it was in my head and that all those symptoms were just from birth control. Butt.... Then I never got my period and I'm never late! I think that's why it's going by so fast is cause I'm still kinda in shock that I'm having a baby esp with the worthless person who it's with!

@candacelouise, well i found out i was pregnant around 3weeks, slowly told family and work around 9weeks and told the world at 14 weeks.. so it's been awhile hehe

@reina_den, really? My pregnancy has gone by so fast! I'm 33 weeks and I feel like I just found out a week ago!

@candacelouise, i'm excited to be further along. I feel like i've been pregnant forever but i just countdown the days til my next ultrasound so i can see her

@reina_den, it is crazy. I had a sono at 24 weeks and baby was long and what not.. But then at my next sono at 18 weeks...now that was awesome! He literally looked like a newborn in there. Getting full cheeks and a full round tummy.. Yawning and "breathing" already. It was insane to see a real little person inside

@candacelouise, it's crazy i haven't quite wrapped my head around how big she is in there. i keep picturing this little bean but no i'm going on 21weeks weeks and she has longer fingers n toes maybe even hair.. i definitely feel her in there tho

@reina_den, oh heck yes it happens! They are picky little things from the beginning. They may be little but that doesn't mean they don't know what they want. Lol

@candacelouise, for real? so it does happen huh? people i talk to think i'm weird but it's not in my head! this baby knows what she wants and doesn't want! i dread going to work cuz im a nurse and have to wear pants. i recently started wearing dresses on my days off and omg feels amazing!

@reina_den, ohhh then you'll prob be more comfy when baby moves up! My mom said I was like that, I liked my space. I didn't want anything tight or near me in the womb. She would be reading a book and I would start kicking until she moved it further away

@candacelouise, yea? i already can't lie in bed without multiple pillows behind me. i duno what i would prefer.. i just know that it's hard to wear pants even maternity pants cuz the bands, although loose n stretchy, irritate this baby too. i think she feels too squished

@reina_den, I would have to say ribs is better, but I don't like that feeling every time I walk of needing to pee or feeling like you're gonna pee your pants ha! But at this point it's just a dice roll and most times it both at the same time.

@candacelouise,

haha thanks! yea i was talking to my OB and she said the same thing.. what's better shortness of breath or cramping? baby just needs to find a cushy spot in the middle!

@reina_den, lol it'll get better when you get further along she will be up higher. And then she will be in your ribs. Ha not sure what's better. Ribs or bladder. You'll have a short time where baby is right in the middle. Enjoy it while you can ha