serious question ; How do you feel about having your mother-in-law in the room when you give birth? my moms gonna be there, and my husband. He never said he wanted his mom there, but, I thought that it would be nice to have her there as his support not just mine. thoughts???
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old. He was my first child and my only son (I now have 3 girls). He passed away the next day after this picture from congenital heart failure. It was a miracle that he lived passed 12 weeks gestation because of how severe his heart defects were. I miss him so much, I can't believe it's been 5 years. It still hurts so bad. I don't talk about him a lot out loud because I end up bawling, so i thank you for letting me share this with you ladies. You have always been nice and supportive. Happy birthday son, your mom loves you.
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Ivey·
I'm having my mom, husband, and mother in law in the room when I give birth. I'm gonna give them specific instructions NOT to say anything stupid to piss me off 😂😂😂
Jes·
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I have a scheduled C-section, and only my sister will be there. Both my mom and my sister's fiance's mom want to be there, and I said no. I have more of a bond with my sister than anyone else.
Krystin·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)
I was gonna have my MIL hubby and SIL in my delivery room and they were all excited but my MIL passed before I had my son so it ended up being.hubby and SIL in my room I thought it'd be awkward but my SIL helped me alot more than my hubby did. me and my SIL are actually closer now than we were before
Jeni·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (11 нед.)
I had my MIL, mom, sisters and husband. It was very special. I gave both at home so that a little different since there is no people limit. At the moment you're not even embarrassed because you're so focused on the birth. I think it creates a bond and sweet memories.
brianna·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)
I had my mom my grandma , my fiance, his stepmother, then I also had my little sister and his father also in the room but they were behind a curtin.
Elsa·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
Wow that was very touching @kkmoss.madisonsmommy_ @dukesmommy22 I truly appreciate it and I'm sorry for your losses as well. God truly does send us miracles 🙏🏽
_kmoss.madisonsmommy_·
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thank you @dukesmommy22
Katie Sargent·
I agree with @_kmoss.madisonsmommy_ my grandmother passed away in July and new how terrified I was that I couldn't have kids and knew it was the only thing I ever wanted. I didn't have another period after she passed. I was pregnant . When God takes one away he gives another in return! Good luck to both of you ladies 💙 @queenelsa0408
_kmoss.madisonsmommy_·
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I'm sorry for your loss. and the emotional support from any mother figure seems appropriate for the occasion, I just didn't know how many mothers did that. your mom is always with you, in your heart. think of it this way, ( IDK your beliefs but) god sent your little bundle to you bc it's your moms way of saying I'm here. 💙 I lost my grandpa to cancer, & he came to me in a dream and told me he give me a surprise. didn't know what it was til I missed my period by 12 days. lol. babygirl is a blessing. @queenelsa0408
Elsa·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
Thank you I appreciate it @dukesmommy22
Katie Sargent·
@queenelsa0408,
Katie Sargent·
I think that would be a great idea I think you will want that mother figure as support for yourself as well as your husband.
Elsa·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
@_kmoss.madisonsmommy_, @dukesmommy22 I was going to ask the same question. Only difference is that I don't have my mother. She passed away when I was 11 years old. So I was thinking of having my mother in law and my husband in the room during the delivery.
Katie Sargent·
I am very close with my mother in law. I invited her for support for him and I. I think it's a great bonding experience .