Ugh, I never really rant on social media but I'm so upset. My best friend is getting married in 2 years and keeps talking to me about all her plans for the wedding. I am being that supportive friend because I truly am happy for her, but whenever I talk about my baby that is coming in September she doesn't have much to say and goes straight to talking about her wedding.... She does this on plenty of other things too. Just puts the spotlight right on her. 😪
It's been so rough.. 😔 My husband and momma say I'm better off, and maybe I am, but it hurts. 💔 I can usually shrug it off, but as it comes closer to my shower and due date, it's harder.
I know. It's not something I ever considered @soon2b2. @laneylovesyou , what the hell?! You deserve to feel her support in those special moments. I feel like since my friend has been with her fiancé, she's turned into the biggest queen, isolated herself from everyone and makes every moment about her. There's so much shit that's gone on since last year that I'm just like, whatever now. 💁🏼
My childhood friend is the same.. She's getting married in October. I hadn't heard from her since my wedding (and when we found out we were pregnant) in October 2015 except when he proposed (they planned it so I already knew) and when she found her dress. But when I found out Little Man's gender, she never even liked my post. 😭 it's so sad because we always said we'd be each other's kids godmothers but.. Not when she's practically a stranger now.
Exactly. It's heartbreaking because you never thought about breaking up with your best friend.
It makes you wonder how much things change. It's really hard to just listen and be there 100% and when you need them it's impossible. It's like, " hey, I have needs too!" @soon2b2
My high school bestfriend is like that. Needless to say I'm beginning to make the decision to no longer be friends with her because I can't have anyone in my life that will always talk about self and not listen to me at all. It's selfish and not fair. Along with that I could vent to her and she would bash whoever I'm venting about but get very butt hurt when I told her my true feelings about things, even though I was always right at the end.
Lol! You're probably right. Yeah I just don't ever know what to say now so I just don't respond because she can never take anything without blowing up in your face @kandice_stedman86
lol a 2 year engagement is a long time he may wiggle off the hook by then 😂, but a leopard doesn't change its spots so she probably ain't going to change.
I know she always has made things about her but lately it's been really annoying. She will tell me how she has "baby fever" since I've been pregnant and wants to start having kids right away but her fiancé isn't even on board and she is going behind his back to talk to her doctor about family planning. Then jumps to talking about her wedding and if I have any plans in 2018. I'm like, wtf?!? She complains about never having money to hang out and do things but will text me that she's saving $100 a week for her honeymoon... @kandice_stedman86
You'll know what is best for you. I know my fuse is running short with my situation. It's never easy, and I think that the more you take time to focus on your needs and your baby, that's what's important. @laneylovesyou