"RANT TIME" me And My Daughters Biological Father Has Been Separated Since Before My Daughter Was…

Yeah that would make me mad too ... Why fake it when you're not the real thing.

girl ! our baby daddies must me long lost brothers...I swear its the same story for me...except we were never together & he's never seen my daughter into she was almost 2 & it wud be for 5 minutes at a time unless I let her go stay he weekend at his grandmas... then he wud take all these pics trynna put on for fb... then magically he don't wanna be in her life bekuz my husband wen it was really his other daughter mother she was upset that he cheated on her wit me (I didn't kno...) & she got pregnant 2 months after me...so it was a race to her...she wanted her daughter to be first born to him so she told him not to be there for my daughter.. so me & my husband moved to another state & I'm awaiting child support orders to go thru...& if he decide he don't wanna work he can go bak to jail...its up to him...either provide for all 3 (he cheated on her again 6 months later had another daughter) of yur daughters or none at all...

did he sign birth certificate?

@beckahhkathleen, that's the thing and then get mad because someone else takes up the responsibility that he lacks

@jasminemb92, smh they must be but this is his only child && a daughter at that why wouldn't you be excited

@jordyns_mommy88, yes he did && insisted on her having his last name

my sons father was like the his first year and my fiance came into his life when he was six months and after my sons father started seeing pictures of all of us and etc he just got worse ... like it was bad enough he wouldn't even take him when he was off so i could work. but he wouldn't buy a single thing for him. then he wanted a DNA test because he claimed he could only have girls ... like dude really but eventually i took him to court to give up parental rights.

I really want him to give up his rights but I know his family won't let that happen @beckahhkathleen

yu Wudnt even believe the stories... hell some men can even be excited & switch up later smh...kinda like my husband ....he has 3 kids... we both r close to his oldest Is 9 his mother is on drugs but he stays wit his grandma bekuz he didn't wanna move so far away from his brothers...he has a 3 year old son his mother refuses contact with him bekuz she doesn't like me... all bekuz wen I met him she was trynna make them a family but he persued me instead... I can't help that...but now he don't have a relationship wit his son bekuz of that...sometimes I feel bad like its my fault smh...but she's petty for that...so he stopped tryin...he pays child support tho...& his daughter he talks to her face time & all that...smh...the women like us wish our baby daddies wud be involved while other women r pushing theirs away smh..but at least yur bf does for yur daughter...thas all that matters...he's the real one...& nobody ever said love was biological ...I had to learn that myself & I love it...my husband treats my daughter as his own...like he made her himself...

ohh but the judge can order him too. if you have proof of him not being or doing much then the judge can order it. because my sons father didn't want to because he didn't wanna lose benefits but the judge said other wise. especially when the judge saw the text of my bd saying he didn't wanna keep him the whole day because oh he couldn't deal with his crying or oh he didn't have enough diapers or wipes ....

@jasminemb92, I believe my fiancé is the only reason I haven't went off on him yet because I know the truth he does nothing while my fiance struggles && has basically raised her && that's who she calls DaDa

& thas all that matters love...he doesn't deserve to have the father title yur fiance does...

@beckahhkathleen, well maybe I need to start Printing because when we get married in may we wanted my daughter to get his blessings as well as her father && wanted to add his last name to hers

@jasminemb92, my fiance wants his last name added to her name in may because we have a son due in July and he said he just wants his family to be complete

I think hell have to adopt her ....my husband wanted to to ...but I can't put stupid on child support if he adopts her...if I was yu I wud do it...he don't wanna be involved anyways smh...