Okay lady's I need help, before I lose my shit, and go into labor,
So my boyfriend never I repeat never put his phone one airplane mode, never, and he never use to be on his Facebook like he is now, also he, re download snapchat! WHAT DO U THINK? I'm trying to find a way to bring it up,
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Orlando, Florida·
Мама дочки (2 года)
I would just ask what is going on
Mimi·
You can ask .. I mean my husband never did airplane mode and he never even knew what it was I know one of his stupid buddies showed him he always had a lock etc but once I spoke up its been different no lock no airplane and all messages that come in he faces the phone so I can see not that I care anymore I'm over that stress
Tanisha·
Мама двоих (младенец)
please try to talk before you start accusing.
Amanda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (15 нед.)
No offense to you but guys usually do that when their bored of their relationship so they go to social media for entertainment or attention. I've had it happen before. Do something sexy for him or surprise him with something and see if he changes up his act
Veronica·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@mimiz, mines always know it but never use it . And he has a lock on his phone but we had a fight And he changed the password 😑😾
Veronica·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@singletarynumber4, I have so much thoughts racing
Veronica·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@amaperalta03, none taken, I'm soo tired and stressed w a lot of things that's been going on, and I do do things sexy I can not do so much im so pregnant and im the type that if im mad or got thoughts racing in not gonna have sex sometimes i feel like just co parenting
Veronica·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@amaperalta03, sorry for the long story
Amanda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (15 нед.)
Your pregnant and going thru the emotions speak to him. Sometimes us woman over think things and just drive ourselves crazy
Tanisha·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mama932 momma believe me i know hun. the thing is sometimes they don't know that these things make the situation look as bad as we see it. they probably pass it off as no big deal. sometimes with us being pregnant we get this extra sense of us thinking our partners aren't as fond of us as they were. i went through it twice. it's hard.
Mimi·
Oh no I don't like those games plus we're married now 2 pregnancies in and lots of games he knows he's losing me if I see something fishy
Veronica·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@mimiz, sometimes I feel like just co parting I'm on meds for bipolar anxiety depression and my mind races and I start pushing away,
Veronica·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@amaperalta03, yes I agree, and okay I'll try to see how this goes 🗣
Mimi·
I get thoughts like crazy even if he does all this just because I trusted him in the beginning and he acted up but I'm trying to learn to forget because I've already forgiven you know
Amanda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (15 нед.)
And if it doesn't get better get up and leave and if he doesn't come chasing you then he doesn't care and you should move on
Veronica·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@mimiz, yeah he never ever give me a reason to think bad, but lately idk I been thinking and hmm 🤔
Veronica·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@amaperalta03, thanks for the advise