How typical! My "bestfriend" started ignoring me in the early weeks of my pregnancy, and now that…
How typical! My "bestfriend" started ignoring me in the early weeks of my pregnancy, and now that I'm days away from giving birth, she's mailed me saying sorry and that she can't wait to meet the wee man. Hold up? You think you can just parade back in. Do one🖕🏼 honestly does my head in how many people left me at the toughest time and think they can walk back in at the best time!
bl1995·
My best friend did the same! I have had two amazing friends that stuck by me and when she speaks to me now I'm not all friendly with her just civil😌 she's bought me all sorts but it won't make up for what she's done! I totally understand how you feel with this! Haha xx
Becca Stirling·
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So frustrating!! I've literally had 1 friend my whole pregnancy and even then it was just texting no one has actually cared to come see me! Been so horrendous!! It's awful, all because I can't drink and do all the daft things I did before! So infuriating 😳 @bl1995 xx
bl1995·
It's horrible isn't it! Cannot stand selfish people like that✋🏽 I have a friend that had her baby before me and she said once baby is older friends that appear when baby is born just drop you again so she's told me to stay away to save letting random people into my babies life especially if they don't hang around when she's older! Definitely learn who your true friends are! Haha all us mummies stick together though👸🏽xx
Becca Stirling·
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@bl1995, exactly! Worst of it is! My "bestfriend" has a 2 year old!!!! Some people just don't understand! Xx
bl1995·
Wow really? You'd have thought she'd understand then! Just selfishness☺️ you're better off without if that's the case! You and little man don't need part timers! Too good for that👸🏽😇xx
Becca Stirling·
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@bl1995, awww thank you Hun! Xxx
Shan·
my 'bestfriend' done that when I was pregnant, even came to see me when I was in labour making my mum leave the room! then never heard from her again after that, then she bought him a couple of bits when he was couple of months old and gave them to me through my mum! xx
Shan·
have a baby really does show the true colours in others xx
Becca Stirling·
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@shanttc, it really does! We all have who we need! And that's awful! They can't pick and choose when to be involved! This is someone's life their messing with!! Can't just walk in and out when they feel like it! Xx
Shan·
exactly! he's two now and shes never met him and still haven't spoke to her, found out from my cousin that she said that she was too young to have friends with kids, wouldn't have minded so much but she was living with me and my mum through my first few months of pregnancy because she fell out with her dad xx
Becca Stirling·
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@shanttc, that's so horrible!!!! There is no age limit on becoming a mother or being friends with someone with kids! Having kids doesn't change who we are! Just changes our availability! Xx
Shan·
exactly! I now only have one friend and she is now expecting and my partner who is so supporting, you only need the positive people around you and your child, just forget anyone else it's their loss xx
Cheryl·
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wow I thought it was just me!! xx