Nicola
nico7
Nicola·В ожидании первенца

Sorry rant alert!

Over the course of 18 months to the date of July last year. I lost a total of 11 stone, 2 months later I found out I was pregnant. Everyone at the time was so supportive of my final milestone of weightloss. However, that doesn't give them the right now when they see me to say "aw look at you, you're massive! Can't believe you lost all that weight and got pregnant!" Like seriously?!😤🖕🏼. I didn't plan on getting pregnant, she's my little surprise miracle. But what makes people think that's ok to say?! I've heard the same thing numerous times now. Surely if I can lose 11 stone, I can lose the 3 stone that I've put on again just fine. People really boil my blood!

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nico7
Nicola·В ожидании первенца

@zoee23, I'm not even fussed about losing Bubba Chubb quickly either, I just want to enjoy being a first time mum first of all. But thanks, I will do. That goes for you too ☺️ xxxxx

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nico7
Nicola·В ожидании первенца

@megsssimo, I didn't think I'd be able to carry a baby, I wasn't meant to be able to ever do this unplanned or unassisted. But everything has gone fine. I'd take weight gain and a healthy, natural pregnancy before anything else. Totally agree with you, Sod them all ✌🏼️😂 xxx

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theosmummy16
Zoe·В ожидании первенца

You will do hun trust me. Everything will work out in the end. If you need anything just message me on here @nico7 . xxxxxx

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megsssimo
Megan Houston·В ожидании первенца

You look fab, people are probably jealous about how well you've done for yourself and are just trying to put u down! Give me a baby and weight gain any day 🤗💞 xxx

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nico7
Nicola·В ожидании первенца

@zoee23, Thanks, I don't usually let things bother me. But I'm getting fed up hearing the same thing now. I'll show them who can do it all over again💪🏼🏃🏻👌🏼😂. Thank you, all the best to you too xxxx

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nico7
Nicola·В ожидании первенца

@mrsripper, it's the way they say it, like getting pregnant is the worst thing ever. Yet when I was weighing in at 22 stone no one thought to tell me I was fat then 😂😂. Thank you! Congratulations to you too, hope you've had a good pregnancy?xx

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theosmummy16
Zoe·В ожидании первенца

Dont listen to other people in what they say. You are right the have nonright so say things. Yes having a baby is a miracle deffinatly. Congratulations on ur great news 😊 you will be a fabulous mummy. All the best xxxxx

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mrsripper

Aww how can people say something like that? A baby is a miracle and a gift, you will lose the weight no problem!! don't let them get you down .... congratulations on ur pregnancy and the amazing weight loss xx @nico7

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nico7
Nicola·В ожидании первенца
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nico7
Nicola·В ожидании первенца

Thank you! It really had to be done, I was struggling with everyday moving about. When people say those things it makes me feel like everyone thinks I've let myself down. I haven't, I'm growing a human. Yeah I'm not eating my healthiest anymore but if I have a notion for ice lollies or a take away, I'm gonna have it 😂😂. Wish everyone had the same approach as you @megsssimo xxx

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megsssimo
Megan Houston·В ожидании первенца

Omg congrats on getting ur goal!! That's amazing! People are so insensitive, rather than saying nothing they think it's ok to make silly comments, take it with a pinch of salt, you've done amazing and now you'll have your Wee ba to keep u on ur toes soon enough to help u get back to where u want to be xxx

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