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Ariel
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I feel really bad... the guy I'm crushing on is still married but is on break with his wife... he…

I feel really bad... the guy I'm crushing on is still married but is on break with his wife... he still loves her deeply but also has a crush on me Cuz we got a lot in common... I don't want to destroy his marriage... Idk what to do....

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rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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He'll choose the one who makes him the happiest. It'll either be you or the wife.

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rose.grossnickle

Ariel

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I told him that I didn't want to make him confused on what he wants and that I just want him happy.

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lildarebear

Darian

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (35 нед.)

If he's married and away from his wife that should tell you he has commitment issues. No married man is on a break from his wife. And you dont need to be involved with someone like that cause if he can do that to someone else while married.. You'd be no different. Id stay away

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kimberly_preemie-mom

Kimberly

I think you should give him some space.

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rose.grossnickle

Ariel

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it wasn't him who wanted the break but his wife cuz he has major depression (witch I understand I do to) and she got tired of hearing him repeating himself. and I guess she been posting on fb bout how happy she is without him. @lildarebear

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lildarebear

Darian

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (35 нед.)

@rose.grossnickle, again thats just waaay too much drama even to consider with your little one on the way. Even if its his wifes idea.. Thats just more problems to deal with later.. In my opinion. Id stay clear away they sound like trouble.

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babyreeves

Jennifer Stough

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (39 нед.)

Think of how you would feel if you were married to someone who was already involved with someone else before even tying up all of the lose ends with you. The lack of closure, wondering why you weren't enough to at least be given a mourning period. Marriage isn't just any other relationship, it's a legal and religious sacrament that should be taken seriously. He shouldn't be inviting anyone into that sacrament while he is still vowed to another. I would advise you to steer clear. Coming from someone who has been the scorned wife- he always came back to me. Even if it was just to play games, or because he needed someone who understood him. Even two years later when we both have children by someone else. Don't let your emotions get entangled in something that can't be guaranteed.

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