just out of curiosity. if ur babies are changed fed do u just let them cry if they cry..I don't I…
just out of curiosity. if ur babies are changed fed do u just let them cry if they cry..I don't I soothe my daughter If she cries and my sister keeps telling me I'm spoiling her because I can't walk away for five min without her crying, how can I break this?
missing647user·
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Doctors say there's no such thing as spoiling a baby, you are suppose to comfort them when they cry!
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I know my sister was like u got to stop listening to drs, and I keep telling her u can't spoil an infant and she doesn't listen @kaydenlwmommy it's starting to annoy me. I just got out of an abusive relationship and I told her I feel like I left abuse and walked right into more abuse that I'll raise my daughter how I want and she was like how r u ever going to work or do anything if ur baby cries every time u leave the room and I really don't know the answer to that
missing647user·
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You really don't have to answer her that's your kid but I will say When that time comes for you to go back to work or etc your baby may cry but she will adjust to the change but right now she doesn't need to .. Babies look to their mothers for comfort and that's what you're there for..
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but I live with her and she makes it seem like she bends over backwards for me :( just sucks @kaydenlwmommy I've been paying my way from money I have saved so she hasn't done much besides make the drive from FL to VA to pick me up and back
Ruby·
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I did that too. now o slowly let him fuss it out. if he actually cries I'll put him in another play thing or play with him for a bit. but at first he hated it, cried all the time. now he plays and gets bored and fusses and plays with so.thing else and cries when he actually wants me. so just find things she likes and let her fuss for a bit. it's okay. go to the bathroom. make yourself some food. have your time too. she's okay
missing647user·
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don't let her make you feel guilty, at the end of the day that is still YOUR child not hers .. Shes entitled to her opinion, you can listen to her or pretend to.. but do as you feel your the mother regardless of what she says!
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it kills me she acts like I have to mistreat my daughter to be a good mom because she's "spoiled" or because she sleeps with me or because I breastfeed like everything I'm doing is wrong @kaydenlwmommy