Needing some advice. My husband has a really good job and makes great money. He has ask me to be a stay at home wife because we have a dog that sits in her cage from 7am-7pm when he gets home and he also says we never have time together because he works so early and I don't get off until midnight. So the only time we have together is when we lay down for bed. What do you ladies think I should do?
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if u just have to work and don't wanna stay home I would find a simple 5 hour job to keep my mind busy. .being at home with nothing to do is boring as hell hopefully when baby gets here she will give me a life
it's all about wat you feel comfortable with.. I have been a stay at home mom/wife since me and my hubby got married.. I absolutely love it but it can be very stressful and hard to find time for just your self but I wouldn't trade it for nothing
I'd do it, I've been a stay at home wife since June 2015 we moved closer to his job and have three dogs so I take care of them and clean when I can't since I'm 30+ weeks. it does get boring but hobbies help a lot
We don't have any children and I'm not pregnant we just have my furbaby and he said that she needs time with me and he does too. They both never see me. I know we can financial be fine. Our bills only add up to about 600 a month and he brings home like over 4,000 a month.
I would take it!! If I could/afford to be a stay at home/wife I would!
I'd take it!!! My boyfriend doesn't want me working, and he takes care of everything. I'm very much enjoying being a stay at home mom... Yes it gets boring, but there's no stress, no stressing over your job, and you can just relax all day which is great for a growing baby!! My job is keeping the house clean, taking it easy, and walking the dogs... After all, when baby girl is born, that's a full time thing!
its what your comfortable with and if you guys can handle it financially. if that was me, I would do it because you need time for yourself and with your husband. I think it will be good but its what you want.
Why can't other mom's just be there for other mom's and work together and help each other not bash other mom's because when other mom's bash other mom's it makes us feel like we aren't doing a good job at least that's how I feel when I get bashed.
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his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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If y'all would be financially stable I would do it!!! You could always find something part time also if you didn't want to just stay home ☺️