Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I literally have to only give my dad and his gf enough for 1 bottle when I drop him off there every Tuesday because last week they were about to give him 6oz in an hour like are you crazy they said because he was crying, play with him give him attention and he won't cry pick him up and walk around with him. I told him he gets 3 oz at 7pm they ended up not giving him the 3 oz till 7:30 and we got there at 8:30 to pick him up and was feeding him again I lost my mind it pisses me off bc he has a schedule and they totally didn't listen
I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want anything out of it anyway and he keeps picking her up and taking her to the toy box no matter how many times I tell her no and tell him she doesn’t even want anything out of there anyway. At first I told him “only let her get one toy” so she picks one up and he is still holding her over the toy box then tries to put her over the baby gate so she can grab more. I’m sorry but you aren’t the one that has to pick up all these toys. You aren’t the one who has to put them back. He never picks up toys. Everyone wants to get the toys out for her out no one ever wants to help me pick them back up. The fact that I said not to let her get anything out of the box more than 5 times really pisses me off. You may be her grandparent but you aren’t her parent. So now I have mass toys to pic up on top of the toys she already had out from this morning
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
what are you guys thoughts on letting your baby cry...my baby goes to sleep on me but once I put him down he crys and wakes up I don't like letting him cry like that so I pick him back up. he will be a month old in 2 days.
aja·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
thank you @michellevaldez4750
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I hope you and his dad can figure something out that works for everyone and I pray he stays consistent!
aja·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
I see @michellevaldez4750
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
That's the only thing that has kept us together. It's so much work to divorce! We are just coexisting at this point. I just don't want to fight and argue anymore
aja·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
@michellevaldez4750, oh my goodness what's wrong with these men. well I hope the marriage works out for everyone's sake. I think in my case it was much easier for him to walk away because we weren't married
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
My husband is one of these guys too. He has a son who he doesn't know and he's told me many times if he leaves me he's moving to Texas and not seeing his kids anymore. and that would devastate our 9 year old and our 7 year old. They worship him si much it makes me so mad to know he doesn't deserve to have them love him that much. :(
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Unfortunately there are a lot of guys out here who feel like pregnancy is a woman's issue and raising a child is her responsibility. it's crazy how ppl can really think that's ok!
aja·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
exactly @michellevaldez4750 and how bout this is his only child and first son . guess that didn't matter
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Oh no! that's messed up. He is bogus for that, especially if you were ok with not having him around, he should have respected that agreement
aja·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
@michellevaldez4750,
aja·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
@numommy2016, yessss I was so perfectly fine pretending he didn't exist. he didn't call me i didn't call him. ..now I'm like ughhhhh wtf he left us hanging in the beginning and his exact words were we were supposed to be just friends and u got pregnant, I don't want a baby. if you go through with it that's on you. ..I made it up in my mind to say fine I got this. .NOW u wanna pop up. . awww he'll naw get lost
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I would go for support if he wants to be involved now. Definitely. hopefully he stays involved and doesn't just dissappear again. I hate when men do that to their kids without caring how it affects them.
Breanna·
В ожидании первенца
your welcome....same shit ima be on if and when my childs father decides to be involved but if not all the better!!! @number321
aja·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
I just don't understand it, he never been interested or involved now why pop up and bother us. I haven't even went for child support. ..maybe I should now. and what's with the overnight why does he need to watch him sleep. .@michellevaldez4750,
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
If he wants to change something he needs to discuss it before and not just spring it on you. obviously he's gonna want to have over nights with his son but it needs to be planned.
aja·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
thanks guys he just really frustrated me thinking he had any right to demand me around @j.echo @brand_3 @numommy2016
Breanna·
В ожидании первенца
nope! there was an agreement made and he couldnt follow it..maybe next week
i think u did right☺
Brandy·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 14 лет), ждёт третьего
Not wrong at all!!
Jes·
В ожидании первенца
You aren't wrong. Especially since he's only been doing this 3 weeks...