the agreement between my son's dad and I, is every Tuesday he picks him up in the mornings and bring…

You aren't wrong. Especially since he's only been doing this 3 weeks...

Not wrong at all!!

nope! there was an agreement made and he couldnt follow it..maybe next week

i think u did right☺

thanks guys he just really frustrated me thinking he had any right to demand me around @j.echo @brand_3 @numommy2016

If he wants to change something he needs to discuss it before and not just spring it on you. obviously he's gonna want to have over nights with his son but it needs to be planned.

I just don't understand it, he never been interested or involved now why pop up and bother us. I haven't even went for child support. ..maybe I should now. and what's with the overnight why does he need to watch him sleep. .@michellevaldez4750,

your welcome....same shit ima be on if and when my childs father decides to be involved but if not all the better!!! @number321

I would go for support if he wants to be involved now. Definitely. hopefully he stays involved and doesn't just dissappear again. I hate when men do that to their kids without caring how it affects them.

@numommy2016, yessss I was so perfectly fine pretending he didn't exist. he didn't call me i didn't call him. ..now I'm like ughhhhh wtf he left us hanging in the beginning and his exact words were we were supposed to be just friends and u got pregnant, I don't want a baby. if you go through with it that's on you. ..I made it up in my mind to say fine I got this. .NOW u wanna pop up. . awww he'll naw get lost

@michellevaldez4750,

Oh no! that's messed up. He is bogus for that, especially if you were ok with not having him around, he should have respected that agreement

exactly @michellevaldez4750 and how bout this is his only child and first son . guess that didn't matter

Unfortunately there are a lot of guys out here who feel like pregnancy is a woman's issue and raising a child is her responsibility. it's crazy how ppl can really think that's ok!

My husband is one of these guys too. He has a son who he doesn't know and he's told me many times if he leaves me he's moving to Texas and not seeing his kids anymore. and that would devastate our 9 year old and our 7 year old. They worship him si much it makes me so mad to know he doesn't deserve to have them love him that much. :(

@michellevaldez4750, oh my goodness what's wrong with these men. well I hope the marriage works out for everyone's sake. I think in my case it was much easier for him to walk away because we weren't married

That's the only thing that has kept us together. It's so much work to divorce! We are just coexisting at this point. I just don't want to fight and argue anymore

I see @michellevaldez4750

I hope you and his dad can figure something out that works for everyone and I pray he stays consistent!

thank you @michellevaldez4750