I'm so nervous guys. At 30 weeks with my son I ended up having an emergency c section due to preeclampsia and the docs not being able to get my blood pressure down. I def don't want the same thing to happen with this baby. What are some things I should do differently or could do differently?
My preemie is on my profile picture with me. He's 4 months now so I'm sure he wouldn't look so small now. But he's on my profile pic with me @kimberlyyyy
They told me they wouldn't accept the request for the group because your fb profile doesn't indicate that you have a preemie. It's the first time I've ever heard of them being so picky about members. I'm so sorry. I had no idea they were like that. I can try talking to them again, but I guess you'd have to have a couple pictures of your preemie as public or add a mini description saying you're a preemie mom or something.
@kimberlyyyy, getting into the preemie group on Facebook looks harder than I thought. I sent the request someone must've denied it because I had to send another requests hours later 😩
@coral1, I heard the second time around ppl normally don't get it
@coral1, I hope I don't get preeclampsia either and am able to go all the way. Oh boy. I had my son at 30 weeks I'm hoping that doesn't happen again. Are you having a c section or natural birth?
@coral1, I really want to but I'm not sure because November will only make 12 months and I'm not sure if that's enough time to heal. There are some risk if I do it naturally this time but I really want to. My first prenatal visit is April 15th we will see hats the plan
What's your Facebook name? I'll see if I can talk to an admin
You can add those groups and ask the other members what their doctors chose to do for them. Aspirin is the only thing I can remember, but I'm not sure the specifics. Good luck momma! Hope you have a healthy and full term pregnancy this time around.
I'm waiting for them to accept my requests on fb to the preemie moms group @kimberlyyyy
I def will talk to my doc on April 15th. Thank you @kimberlyyyy
Did your doctor tell you to take an aspirin a day? Since you're a preemie momma I suggest trying to add yourself to the preemie mom pages o follow on Facebook. I'm not sure how many people can relate to you here, although I've seen quite a few preemie moms here. Anyway, if you look for Preemie moms, Super Preemies, and Preemie Support And Awareness those are all helpful groups/pages I'm a member of. As always, talk to your OB Doctor and if it's a different doctor than your first make sure they know your previous medical history.
I know this sounds sooo fkedup but sometimes i wanna get into a bad accident so my husband sees exactly all the things i do ... and how wrong he is by saying i don’t do enough ( not in those words but the jist of it ) anyway .... i think this all the time . Maybe then he will think differently .

F my neighbor just knocked on my door to tell me I had a huge beehive in my tree. Wtf do I do about this thing? It’s huge!!
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

My baby father has some things on his mind. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️Any suggestions on what I should do?
@coral1, me too