I've been married 10 years, my husband has cheated and the only advice I want to give you is this... do what you feel is right for you! Don't do what is right for your friends, family etc meaning everyone will say "I'd do this or I'd do that" you aren't them. If you don't want to work it out with him, great if you do want to work it out, great! It's all up to you and you alone!!!

I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but you can't make him change if he doesn't want to change. He needs to realize what he's doing to his family. If he won't even talk to you, then that's a HUGE red flag, and you need to either go somewhere else, or get him out. Stress while you're pregnant is so so so bad for you, and you gotta just be able to relax as much as possible. I'm hoping things get better for you Hun ❤️

Lay it down to him. His family should come first. Some friends are such bad influences on fathers.

Put your foot down and stand your grounds. You need to be happy and relaxed the best you can while pregnant :)

@joyynaomii, that's how it was when I was pregnant with our daughter but now he is completely different. an won't talk I'm completely pushed aside an his friends come first

@myasmommy, he don't want to talk to me. he's always gone all hours and when he is gone never texts or calls.. we've become roommates more than anything.

Find out. You don't need that. My fiancé cheated on me when I was 6 weeks. We ended up staying together. But I couldn't do it and things got so bad. We split for a good month (which was hell) and got back together. Things changed, big time. Now we're engaged, have our own little home, and our baby girl is here .

I would talk to him and see if it's true.. Until you know for sure I wouldn't do anything. Just stay relaxed until your worries are answered by him.